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Hi,
Just wondered how many others of you feel like i do, in particular i'm talking about being back at work. I went back part-time in November and feel like i have struggled to fit back in since i went on mat leave the year before. Before i had my baby i felt quite confident about my position in the office, felt like i had lots of friends etc but as the year went by that i was away, i felt like things changed and i didn't change with it.New people joined, old people left, people who i thought were my friends stoped inviting me out and when i returned on a part-time basis, i felt like i just don't 'fit in' anymore.
I'm not sure if it's because i am only there half a week now or maybe it is because the same things don't interest me perhaps.I do like the people i work with , and still have a laugh at times (and have one very good friend there) but i've never felt like this before. Is it out of sight out of mind when you're on mat leave?Can anyone else relate to me?
Just wondered how many others of you feel like i do, in particular i'm talking about being back at work. I went back part-time in November and feel like i have struggled to fit back in since i went on mat leave the year before. Before i had my baby i felt quite confident about my position in the office, felt like i had lots of friends etc but as the year went by that i was away, i felt like things changed and i didn't change with it.New people joined, old people left, people who i thought were my friends stoped inviting me out and when i returned on a part-time basis, i felt like i just don't 'fit in' anymore.
I'm not sure if it's because i am only there half a week now or maybe it is because the same things don't interest me perhaps.I do like the people i work with , and still have a laugh at times (and have one very good friend there) but i've never felt like this before. Is it out of sight out of mind when you're on mat leave?Can anyone else relate to me?