Without a doubt Hubby will be there but i would like my Mum to be there too but Hubby doesnt. Hubby is a very private person and would prefer it to be the two of us BUT he is very freaked out by the baby in the tummy thing! He has only touched my bump and felt the baby move once, yes just once, it scares him He wont really talk about labour, I think he thinks its going to be easy and I'm worried he's going to be scared and not able to support me the way he will need to. My Mum is a Midwife and we are very close despite living 180 miles apart and I would really love her to be there. I know she would sit back and give us some time together but just knowing she is on hand to help us through it would make me feel so much better. I feel like Hubby is being selfsih saying no when its me going through the pain but then I don't want to push it as afterall it his first born child too! I'm hoping he comes around in the end!