anyone live on their own and apart from OH??

[danniemum2be]

at the moment i live with OH in manchester (were both from round liverpool) but he had a job up here and when his dad dies he got left with some money so put a deposit down on a mortgage for this house so owns it. then i moved in with him, but since then he lost that job and is now back working in liverpool. he works nights and sleeps in the day, i dont drive, the only family i speak to leave in nottingham and all my friends are back down there so im on my own pretty much all day every day. it puts such a strain on our relationship and we argue all the time because of it cuz i hate being here, so i have just applied to property pool to get a house down there for me and maisie, which would mean me and matt living seperate until he sorts something out with this house, i think it would give him a kick up the arse too us moving out. does anyone else live seperate from their partners and on their own? and how do you manage it? x x

 

[laura1991]

I find it easier being on my own less stress. The only thing thats hard is having to share lily and were not on great terms but he's a amazing dad. I'm pretty lonely without my friends they all moved on when I was pregnant and no one I know has any babies so thats hard to but I hope that when I go uni next year i'll make some new ones xx