Anyone lose friends after BFP?

[heather_marie]

I can count my friends on one hand, as I prefer a few "close" friends rather than a bunch of "acquaintances". So when I became pregnant again for the 4th time (after 3 losses) I expected my best friend to be there for me to help me through this very stressful time. Unfortunately she has been anything but there for me and I'm having a very hard time accepting this. I guess it's true when they say you find out who your true friends are. Because it looks like my friend of 15 years is showing her true colors. Anyone else experience this?

 

[Pippin]

I have a cousin like this. When I got pregnant with my son she basically ignored me and cut me out her life. She can't have children without assistance and chose not to so I think it must really hurt. I hoped she would see him as her brother or own and share his life with me as we were that close. I asked her to be a fairy god mother (non religious god mother) in the hope that would help but she has seen him three times in 18 months and the last time at Christmas she didn't even by him a gift but gave lots of gifts to her only niece who was also there. It upset me so much I can't tell you. I don't feel I want to share anymore so I don't. I'm tired of rejection from someone I have spent most of my life with. I just feel like she is missing out on something she can't have and that upsets me too.