Our second transfer ended in an early miscarriage. I got a faint bfp at 7dpt and it got darker til 10dpt (so damn excited). A few days later they just stalled. I went for my beta (feeling horrible about it) and they rang and said congrats on being pregnant. I cried over the phone and said that my beta (54) was way too low for it to be viable if it had been doubling properly and I explained my tests to them. They told me I was paranoid. A few days passed by and I miscarried at work. I rang the clinic and yelled at the poor nurse demanding a repeat beta. It came back at 2. Devastated... but glad it was ending finally like I knew it was anyway.
Silver lining of it all was we could go back straight away for a FET and I knew I could get pregnant. We got a step closer! That next cycle we did gave us our little girl.
I hope your beta either bares great news for you or at least give you some closure. I am thinking of you.
Thanks ladies, I'm absolutely gutted been a crying mess all afternoon. We decided not going to jump straight back into it. We are going to take a couple months break and go on a holiday. I think we need it
Yeah you have to do what is best for you and if that is taking a break and a holiday with your partner then that is what you should do. Will be well deserved.
I'm always here if you need to chat and for when you want to jump back in.
Just think when you are ready to come back you have some lovely frosties waiting for you xx
Hey girls I did my bt today and am waiting on results although I'm still lightly bleeding so not holding onto much hope. I just want to know what the next step is as we will only do one more transfer before giving it a break. Not sure I'll make it through another one!! It's been one hell of a ride! I'm going to insist on 2 back next time. Just waiting to see when xx
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