anyone testing 9th april??

[Nessicle]

lol EpdTTC!! It's weird but the bb's have stopped hurting for the time being anyway!! I think it must've been a hormone surge but I was like woah that's a new symptoms I've never had and I just knew I was pregnant!!

kcw - so sorry the witch got you babe

I drank plenty of water and did the SMEP and laid with my legs in the air for 20 mins I think all three combined helped me get this bfp!

for all of you guys xxx

 

[Lou229]

Congrats Ness! I'm so happy for you. I can't believe you got your so early! It really does make me want to get a test today but I'm going to be strong. DH has forbidden it cos whenever I see it on the stick I get so down hearted. He says that I should just wait for to arrive and if she doesn't then test. (What he doesn't know is that I have had to hide the house keys from myself so I don't just go out to the shop and get a test right now lol)

Well update on syptoms:

dizzy/faint spells last Wed/Thurs/Fri
low stomach ache since Sat - still continuing
Need to pee more since Fri
Lots of wind/gas since Fri
Really tired since last Thurs
bbs extra sensitive since Sun
Nausea since Sat
Had a weird taste in mouth on Fri then again on Sun

I think that's all but I may have missed some out.

I think this is the most symptoms I've had yet but then maybe I'm just extra mad this month lol

 

[le_annek]

Congrats Nes so pleased for you!!! I caved today and got a BFN!!!! think im about 10DPO so dont think its my month. anyone else tested at 10 DPO? xxx

 

[Nessicle]

Thank you girls! 11dpo today and got a positive on a digi! must be a strong little beanie!

I tested 10dpo le_annek but I know for a fat I implanted on early morning of 7dpo (Saturday) as I felt tugging sensations whilst laid in bed and then nipping sensations all day behind belly button. then by about 7pm my boobs were extremely sore and my abdo was so sore like I'd been doing loadsa exercise!!

I hope your bfp is here in the next couple of days

 

[thisisme]

NESSICLE_ i know ive said it already but CONGRATULATIONS!!! its so strange, in 'real life' when people tell me theyre PG i feel some jealousy, especially if it 'just happened, was a shock, we werent trying' type scenario. but on here i feel genuinally happy for anyone who falls PG because i know what it feels like to have that obsession of tryingh, waiting, peeing etc. yes i have 2 children but that yearning never goes away once it takes hold.

KCW- sorry the got you, and early at that! im still hoping she wont fly in for me guess i will have to wait and see hope your next cycle is much more successful and lucky FX'd for you x

LOU i know what you mean about wanting to test early, i did with 4 tests last one yesterday all but still not out till that fat rolls in. i did give OH a test to hide, he didnt so that was what i used yesterday, have now ordered IC so will refrain from buying any more till they arrive that way it gives me a few days, hoping they will be here tomorrow, but im thinking thurs or friday which will be when AF is due (fri).

not feeling quite so sick today, was last night felt really yukky, but this morning i woke up with a stuffy nose and sare head so am begining to think all the 'symptoms' i had are because im coming down with something

for all xx

 

[Lou229]

Yeah totally get what you mean about being genuinely happy for anyone with a on here. I think because we are all going through it together and we are all honest about how jealous we feel feel when someone else gets pregnant. I know that Ness would feel jealous if the roll were reversed but she'd know how hard ttc is and so feel triumphant that at least one of us fertility challenged fruit cakes can actually beat the evil lol

I have a really good friend from work and every time I've mentioned how annoyed I am at the length of time I've been trying, she tells me the same story about her 3 pregnancies where she just looked at her hubby and instantly fell pregnant! She honestly thinks that this story helps but she has not gone through the months of ttc with no hint of PG!

I'm starting to really consider caving and buying a test when I'm out at shops tonight. I know it's wrong but maybe a result one way or the other will let me move on this month and start again for a new month.

 

[thisisme]

im being quite naughty i have a friend coming over and shes buying me some cheapies on the way

i know what you mean about insensitive friends, the said friend coming over with the cheapies is like...i'll be a surrogate for you im sooooo fertile!!! grrrr i dont want you to be a surragate i like carrying my own children thanks you and i dont care how fertile you are, i clearly am not which is what matters!!!
she got PG this time last year and didnt know who the fater was (choice of 2) and decided she couldnt live with that so had an abortion but then has the nerve to complain that 'her baby' would be this age or 'her baby' wouldve been doing this grrrrr well you had the miracle and you destroyed it stop whining about it!
OH and i have been together 2 1/2 yrs (granted not long) but i know hes the one, we never argue, we never really have anything mean to say about each other and we still love and are the best of friends so its not like this baby is a bandaid baby, this baby is wanted, we want to extend our family and add to the amazing kids we already have!

dear oh dear sorry that didnt start of as a rant its amazing what feelings we harbour when we struggle and the only people who understand are other women we dont really know just through the pc. and how one little comment can bring out a whole tirade of emotions and feelings

 

[Lou229]

I totally understand what you're saying thisisme. Me and my hubby met when I was just 16 and he was 18. 10 years later we will be celebrating our 4th wedding anniversary. We are like best friends, we laugh and joke and that's what keeps us so strong. It's so annoying that as teenagers we tried desperately hard not to get PG because of what people might think. Then when we got married, we both felt ready and at a time in life where people could only think of a baby as a good thing but I was still studying so we couldn't afford it. Then last April, I had been working long enough to get decent maternity benefits and we had just moved into to a brand new 4 bed house, we thought one night, why not? There's nothing stopping us now. Unfortunately neither of knew that mother nature had other plans lol

FX'd it'll happen soon.

As for people having abortions - it just sickens me. I am a very tolerant person and understand that some situations are not appropriate for bringing a baby into the world but whilst we are having such a hard time getting PG, I can't help but get so angry at the thought of someone getting rid a little

 

[Nessicle]

I know what you mean girls and it means so much to me that you guys are so genuinely happy for me! I seem to get jealous in real life when someone told me they were expecting but I've always been chuffed to bits for everyone on here

xx

 

[thisisme]

hi LOU
awww mother nature is such a cow

even tho i have only been with OH 2 1/2 years ve known him for 9...we met througha friend (who i used to 'fancy') and we used to get on really well, spent a fair bit of time together, always had a laugh but i never fancied him, he wasnt my type, i was very outgoing he was very quiet and as i said i liked his friend lol we used to pretend bicker a lot and some lil old lady said to us, if you werent so young youd think youd been married 20 years so we mad a pact that if we hadnt married we'd married each other. but as with a lot of friendships we drifted apart, he got a gf and they had a baby together, i then had a baby with my ex hubby and moved 300 miles away.
after my seperation i was talking to the old friend (teh one i fancied lol) and we were talking about old times and how i said i would marry OH he said well you still could, hes single again.
i called him up and he came for a holiday, just to catch up on old times, but within an hour of him being in my house i knew something would happen and being with him a week i knew i wanted to spend my life with him.
6 months later we discussed kids and how we wanted some but thought we should wait till id moved and we'd settled a bit but what we didnt know was i was already PG and deacon is now 16 months and we are planning our second.
we were supposed to be getting married 17th of april but we had to cancel, the plans were just getting tooooooo out of control and not what we wanted, so we are just waiting for a better time

sorry its such a long one, i always love to tell that stoiry cos im a soppy old mare

i too dont agree with abortion, unless it was rape or something, that is a different story all together. but it frustrates me all these 'kids' getting pregnant by boys theyr barely know and the same old 'oh i only did it the once'
ONCE IS ENOUGH!!!! well for some people any way

 

[Lou229]

lol if only once were enough! I know it's so difficult to understand why some people seem to get PG so easily and yet others take so long.

Just think though how easily it happened for you the first time round with your man. It wasn't so long ago so at least you know there is nothing wrong with either of you. Maybe your body just wants a little rest between babies lol

For both of us it's our 1st and I can't help wonder if there is something wrong. It sounds daft but the amount of "little accidents" we've had over the years, I should have had about 10 kids by now lol

I guess I always look at my family, my Mum and both my Grandmother's all had 4 pregnancies (not all of them lasted 9 months) and not one of them had any trouble falling PG quickly. My Mum even fell PG at 43 without even trying - now that's fertile! Goung to stop talking now cos I'm just making myself sound more infertile by the minute!

 

[bluemargarita]

three more days to go..hoping for some good news this week

 

[thisisme]

just a quick update on sypmtoms....i have jsut eaten 3 biscuits about 10 mins or so ago, now i have heartburn..only slight but still there and i never get heartburn..its happened last 3 nights eeekkkk im silly i keep getting my hopes up!

friend will be here soon with tests

 

[Lou229]

ooh heartburn is also a good sign. Let me know how you get on with the tests!

Lots of sticky for you xx

 

[thisisme]

thanks...i had a yesterday so think im heading the same way today!!
i hate this blimmin waiting, it drives me nuts!

 

[Lou229]

Try to be positive and remember that it is still really early. Even after your period is due it can take a while before a test will recognise the hcg levels - think I'm trying to convince myself here lol

 

[thisisme]

hello
i have done a test, with the second pee of the day...i can see a really really faint line however my friend say im going mad! so i guess i will just have to wait longer
oh well i'll do another in the morning!

 

[Lou229]

That's a really good sign! My sis in law had that for a few days with her last PG before she got a perfect line. In fact it took over a week before the doctor actually agreed she was PG and that was with blood tests.

Good luck!

 

[thisisme]

i hope so...however i do feel like i only saw it because i wanted to.
dear lord im driving myself nuts, and no doubt everyone else!!!
sorry

 

[Lou229]

Don't worry you could never drive me anymore mad than I'm driving myself! It will happen, you just have to believe. Never give up