Thanks, Heather. it's easy to see other kids doing things better/faster/easier than yours and think, it must be something I'm doing wrong. I'm definitely not going to push her into it if she's not ready. A lady at my church told me that she was so determined to get her first daughter potty trained that she ended up traumatizing her, and she was having accidents until she was in kindergarten.
So I'll give her some time and see if she comes around to it, though she tends to be so scared of everything, so I'm afraid that she won't want to try it until she see's Liam doing it.
Stacey, taking the bottle away may be easier than you think. With Alia, we just suddenly gave her a sippy cup at bedtime with milk in it, and she just flat out refused to drink it, and went to bed fine without the bottle. And that was the end of that.
Heather that should fun having your brother there to visit. My grandma, aunt, and cousin are all coming into town this Saturday, but I still don't know if any of them will be staying with us, or with my dad, because my family seems to hate planning anything.
So good news! My DH got an awesome raise yesterday! I'm talking, an almost 30% raise. We're just so ecstatic! Apparently his boss wants to make sure that he's happy enough to want to stay there long term. So because of this, we should be able to get out of debt and finally build up some savings.