anyone want a ttc#1 buddy?

[ticktock]

I'm 8dpo today and all my pma is gradually going down the drain. had horrible period like pains yesterday and quite sharp pains on my right side so hope af isn't gonna arrive early, not happy

Plus started getting my pre af hot flashes now and then agghhhhh thought it was my month! And to make matters worse am working with some teenage girl at work today who 'accidently' got pregnant. Grrrrrr

Your symptoms sound good to me! I had all that when I got a BFP before!

re: your workmate... Don't you just hate these people that fall pregnant at the drop of a hat like that! Why can't it happen to us like that? lol

I was hoping it may be a good sign but I don't like to get my hopes up lol

hmmm maybe if you don't normally spot then it could be implantation bleeding of some sort? I always spot so its not out of the ordinary for me but if it is for you, then you may not be out yet! what dpo are you?
My boobs deflate when af arrives too, I wish they stayed all inflated, it looks great hahahaha
yeh its sooo annoying, I'm cover staff at my old nursery I used to work at and theres pregnant women everywhere! Bt ya know what, working in the baby room almost cured me of my broodiness lol agghhhhh screaming allllllll day!

 

[mouse_chicky]

Welcome Minnegirl!
Sorry girls about the symptoms. Of course, it ain't over till it's over, lol.
I'm not going to test until June 15. I know that seems like a long time, but I'm basing it on my last cycle of 37 days. Although the first one was 45, so this one may be shorter than that, if the shortening trend continues. I may cave in though, especially if the nausea thing keeps up. (I'm pretty sure my sinus draining is the culprit---eeww.) Hmm, day 25; wouldn't that be too early for symptoms based on my cycle? Wishful thinking.

 

[ticktock]

do you think you've ov'd yet? My longest ever cycle after coming off the pill was 39 days, we weren't ttc then and scared the crap outta us lol

You could just test to check or maybe get some cheapy opks and test with them?
Aw my Mum has her sinuses done every couple of yrs and it seems awful, hope you feel better soon!

 

[dan-o]

do you think you've ov'd yet? My longest ever cycle after coming off the pill was 39 days, we weren't ttc then and scared the crap outta us lol

My longest was 56 when I was fresh off the implant, what a killer cycle that was!!

 

[mouse_chicky]

Ok, I caved with a cheapy.. Way too early, probably. Must have patience.

 

[Chrysalis]

Ok, I caved with a cheapy.. Way too early, probably. Must have patience.

Never mind - prob. too early just yet if your cycle is longer.
I don't have any testing kits in the house so I'm not tempted! Got through 2 in my first month - what a waste! I'm quite lucky I suppose with a short (26 days) cycle or less and so far pretty regular.
Not feeling particularly confident this month as boobs are a bit sore and swollen (not as much as previous months) and have tummy pains but more to do with wind!! (sorry tmi) Still a while to go though.
Hope you get your bfp soon xxx

 

[Chrysalis]

I'm 8dpo today and all my pma is gradually going down the drain. had horrible period like pains yesterday and quite sharp pains on my right side so hope af isn't gonna arrive early, not happy

Plus started getting my pre af hot flashes now and then agghhhhh thought it was my month! And to make matters worse am working with some teenage girl at work today who 'accidently' got pregnant. Grrrrrr

Your symptoms sound good to me! I had all that when I got a BFP before!

re: your workmate... Don't you just hate these people that fall pregnant at the drop of a hat like that! Why can't it happen to us like that? lol

I was hoping it may be a good sign but I don't like to get my hopes up lol

hmmm maybe if you don't normally spot then it could be implantation bleeding of some sort? I always spot so its not out of the ordinary for me but if it is for you, then you may not be out yet! what dpo are you?
My boobs deflate when af arrives too, I wish they stayed all inflated, it looks great hahahaha
yeh its sooo annoying, I'm cover staff at my old nursery I used to work at and theres pregnant women everywhere! Bt ya know what, working in the baby room almost cured me of my broodiness lol agghhhhh screaming allllllll day!

Ditto with being surrounded by pg women! Girl at work just announced - although she was trying for 10mths. Doesn't help that there are 3 baby shops near my work! I hope we will all be shopping for baby stuff too soon x

 

[Chrysalis]

Hi, room for another? I'm 29, and on CD 7. We are in our 5th month of TTC. We have been married for 3 years. So far I have been using Clear Blue digital (smiley face) OPK's and they work really well...well, I get a smiley face, but no pregnancy yet! I am also charting. Hoping this is my month!!

Welcome x

 

[dan-o]

I'm definitely out, although my boobs are still sore which is strange.
Oh well.. onto the next cycle

 

[Chrysalis]

Sorry to hear that Dan-o x
Can anyone tell me what kind of cramps you guys get? I have had sore tummy since ysterday and today it has been really sore and uncomfortable on my lower abdomen and feels really tight and swollen which was not great at work today. It's a bit better now but could be just dodgy bowels rather than pg!! It's really hard to describe the feeling - just uncomfortable I guess. Sore bbs but then they always are every month!
How's everyone else?

 

[ticktock]

my cramps were kinda burny then few days later really quite sharp on one side and almost periody (which if I'm not preggers this month will keep an eye on as was a little weird). I do have pretty bad ibs which could have contributed to it aswell, its sooo annoying. Only diff thing this month is that I had pains on the other side but I think i ovulated from that side for a change so could juse be lingering ov pains.

Its all sooooo annoying!!!!!! And hard to tell diff tummy pains apart

How many dpo are you Chrysalis?

 

[ticktock]

I'm definitely out, although my boobs are still sore which is strange.
Oh well.. onto the next cycle

Are you totally sure?

 

[mouse_chicky]

It's hard not to over-analyze, isn't it? Every little twinge of tummy pain or sore nips, and we wonder. Especially this close. Ticktock, Dan-o, still just symptoms of AF or do you think you know for sure?

 

[dan-o]

Yep I'm deffo out, AF stopped last night, but is now in full force this morning, lol!
Boobs still up, which I've never had before, so if it continues I may go to the docs. I need to go soon anyway to get referred to a FS

Good luck to you ladies still in with a chance though, at least one of us from this group is bound to get a BFP! xx

 

[ticktock]

ah how rubbish dan-o, if you can get referred to fs will be a good step though!

My boobs starting to ache now and tested on an ic this morning, nada, so I'm thinking I'm probably out. Agh I hate this time in the cycle the most!!

Anyone else?

 

[dan-o]

Hope it turns into a BFP for you tomorrow ticktock! Fx

My AF has totally disappeared again. Just that bit of blood this morning.
Maybe I was just having a super light AF this month? Oh well!

 

[Chrysalis]

tick tock - I reckon I'm about 8/9dpo - due af in a week's time. I've still got a sore tummy and pain is more when I sit down - has been all over but now stabbing in my left side. Sooo annoying not knowing (and it hurts!)- I keep telling myself to stop worrying and stop looking for symptoms as there's nothing I can do about anything! But I'm sure you all know how hard that is!
Dan-o - that's great if you can get referred - it's amazing what they can do - my friend saw one and is now expecting twins!

 

[dan-o]

How is everyone doing today, any signs of a BFP yet?

 

[Chrysalis]

Hiya
Too early for me but finally got rid of those tummy pains today.Feelin a bit more positive today but every 'symptom' has a very logical explanation and I have a feeling that it's not this month. Just have to wait and see. Anyone else? There's got to be someone with a bfp soon! xxx

 

[ticktock]

well have started getting the tiniest amount of browny cm which usually do by now so assuming the witch will be here on Monday

Cramps haven't made an appearance yet but sur they will shortly.

Agh so fed up of symptom spotting every month and getting nowhere, Every month I get more convinced theres something wrong with me. Am going to start temping soon to track my ov'ing better cos concerned as I spot a little bit before I come on that my luteal phase is a bit short.

Plus got tonsilitus at the mo so feel even more crappy than normal. I'm such a whingebag!!

Has your af reappeared yet dan-o?