anyone want a ttc#1 buddy?

[Beckkka]

Hello ticktock,

Im mentally recovered on my mc. I guess since it wasn't a planned one, so things were easier. I'm not taking anything, but I'm thinking about buying the pre seed too. Hopefully, we all can all success in this cycle. Sigh, I still need to wait a while. Since today is only my day 1. What so funny about is......each month, I would think Im pregnant and it always turned out to be a disappointment. I guess out body really know how to trick us when we are trying to conceive.

 

[mouse_chicky]

Sorry your AF caught you, Chrysalis. Good luck with your new methods!
Hi, Beckka! Welcome to our group.
I don't think I'm going to be able to use the cbfm this next cycle because my sister can't find it. Boo. And I really don't want to buy one. Oh well. I may try to temp just for kicks.
Hey girls, I need some advice. Today is day 33, and I'm thinking about testing Saturday which will be 35. I think my AF's due next Monday or Tuesday, if I go by my last cycle, which is only a few days from then. Is that still too early to test? I'm going to buy a 3 pack so I can test later if I need to. What do you think?

 

[Chrysalis]

Sorry your AF caught you, Chrysalis. Good luck with your new methods!
Hi, Beckka! Welcome to our group.
I don't think I'm going to be able to use the cbfm this next cycle because my sister can't find it. Boo. And I really don't want to buy one. Oh well. I may try to temp just for kicks.
Hey girls, I need some advice. Today is day 33, and I'm thinking about testing Saturday which will be 35. I think my AF's due next Monday or Tuesday, if I go by my last cycle, which is only a few days from then. Is that still too early to test? I'm going to buy a 3 pack so I can test later if I need to. What do you think?

Of course it's entirely up to you but personally I wait until the AF gets me. But that's just me. I just get cross with myself otherwise. It was so disappointing when I tested early and got bfn a few times. However, it's easier for me as my cycles are short (25 days this month) and lots and lots of girls on this forum do get bfp when they test early. However I'll prob. change my mind next month knowing me! It's hard to be patient I know! I suppose just go with your gut - you can always test again!

 

[Chrysalis]

Hello ticktock,

Im mentally recovered on my mc. I guess since it wasn't a planned one, so things were easier. I'm not taking anything, but I'm thinking about buying the pre seed too. Hopefully, we all can all success in this cycle. Sigh, I still need to wait a while. Since today is only my day 1. What so funny about is......each month, I would think Im pregnant and it always turned out to be a disappointment. I guess out body really know how to trick us when we are trying to conceive.

Hi Beckkka - welcome on board. I'm so sorry about your mc. It must have been really hard. I think we all have the same thing - thinking that we might be pg every month and then are dissapointed. I bought some Conceive Plus from Boots today. It's supposed to be like pre-seed and even has some better reviews. Worth a try I suppose. So, we are both on day 1 - how long is your cycle?

 

[Beckkka]

Hello Chrysalis,

I just recently started counting my cycle. Before I has my mc, I never paid attention to my cycle. My AF came back 6 weeks after my mc, then I had a 28 days cycle. The past one was 35. Quite irregular. I will definitely check out the conceive plus from boots. Thanks !!

 

[Beckkka]

Hi mouse chicky,

Yes, the cbfm is expensive. If you can get it from your sister. That will be nice. I'll plan to give it to my sister when I was able to conceive. Hopefully, this month will be the last time I use it.

Good luck everyone. Baby dust to you all.

 

[ticktock]

hi everyone, are we all at the boring stage waiting to ov lol

Mouse-chicky got her bfp yey!!!!!!!

Not using my cbfm this month as forgot to set it and don't wanna mess it up so am just gonna use cheapy opks and see how go with those. Am trying not to stress as much as possible!!!!

 

[dan-o]

OMGGGG!! Congrats mouse chicky!!!! xxxxx

 

[Chrysalis]

Yeah - go Mouse chicky - sooooo pleased! I knew one of us had to get their bfp sooner or later!!!

 

[KittyCat82]

Hi girls, sorry been while was on hold then been busy-did I miss 2 bfp's??!! Wow! Congrats guys!! How is everyone else doing? Been so busy haven't thought too much about stuff this month, peaked on the cbfm this am whichbis a relief after last month so here we go again...! Af decided to show up first days of hols but tbh I was fine with that and just enjoyed my hols with a few vodkas!! X

 

[happilytrying]

Hello,

I am new to BnB and this is my 3rd cycle of trying to conceive. I recently married back in December of 09. I am 24 and DH is 32. I dont temp or anything like that because my cycles are not regular. I just started taking Vitex this week to see if that will help with the situation and get me my before my hubby's b-day in November! I am interested in joining your group.

 

[ticktock]

Glad you had a good hols Kittycat! And glad you got your peaks! I'm officially a football widow lol so will have to drag hubby away from the tv!

Yeh you missed Mouse-chickys bfp!

Hiya happilytrying hope the vitex helps you? is that to bring on ovulation? I'm taking vit b complex this cycle to see if helps my spotting aswell as takng my trusty maca! you're more than welcome to join us, we have a vacancy too cos one of us just got pregnant

 

[KittyCat82]

Hi tick tock, great news about chickymouse-hopefully the first of many very soon!! I noticed we are quite similar in age, how long been ttc, using cbfm and I have ibs too-I swear so many 'pregnancy symptoms' have been down to that!! 2nd peak this am, was looking on some sites and a lot of peeps reckon they ov on pk day 2 which is interesting. Whereabouts in your cycle are you now? Oh and I am a total football widow at the mo! 2 people I know have announced pregnancies this week can't help but go a little green. I really hope this is a good month for us all! I have had some anxiety issues-stress with work, went to dr last week really hope that doesn't hinder things..

 

[KittyCat82]

Sorry and hi happilytrying-welcome!

 

[KittyCat82]

And I meant mouse-chicky doh, been a long day...!

 

[ticktock]

ah sorry to hear about being stressed kittycat, I've actually had the same thing recently and ttc isn't helping! Hopefully it won't be unhelpful for you, I'm sure it won't.

I reckon I ov on 2nd peak too maybe even on 3rd day after! But as wasn't temping am not totally sure. I didn't set my cbfm properly this month so am just using cheapy opks to see what result they give me!

I hate my ibs, messes up my symptom spotting every month! And if I'm stressed or worried it gets really bad not been good this week as started new job so its gone into overdrive!

Am on day 10 I think so just waiting to ov, was day 14/15 last month so hopefully will be that this month too.

What do ya do for work?

Actually, what does everyone do?!

UGH I hate pregnancy announcements bleurgh and I got a baby shower this weekend double bleurgh

 

[KittyCat82]

Hi ticktock, I'm a solicitor-family law (for my sins) my ibs really plays up when things are manic at work-what do you do? I try not to let the whole ttc thing stess me out and I know in the scheme of things we haven't been ttc that long-but it feels so long some days!! It's only really the 2ww I get a bit anxious then when af shows up, I can't help worry something is wrong somewhere! I really think a holiday has helped this month tho as feel more relaxed. It's strange how people are always going on about how easily you can get pg, no one really talks about how hard it can be!! Fingers crossed that the old cbfm will do it's magic soon. Oh and i can't wait for this bloody world cup to be over!

 

[KittyCat82]

Argh! Things did not go to plan yesterday, hubby was feeling unwell so no bding last night which was our 2nd pk day. That means this cycle I had 6 highs and 2 peaks and we bd 3 of the 6 highs (inc night before 1st peak) 1st peak and will try tonight (back to high today) if the England match doesn't go on too late!! I'm really annoyed I really wanted to try everything this month. I know nobody knows, but do you think we may still be in with a chance this month? And I said I wouldn't get stressed!!

 

[ticktock]

from the sounds of it you should be fine. Even if you ov'd yesterday on 2nd peak you'd still be covered from previous day as spermies live for a few days. So don't stress lol easier said than done
I'm in same position with football tonight, did opk this morning was completely negative so am not too worried if can't bd tonight. But I'll get him tomorrow!

 

[KittyCat82]

Well it gets worse as hubby has decided to go to pub to watch footy so will be gone by time I get home and will prob be in no fit state when he gets back esp if they win!! Oh well thanks for reassurance may try get him in am if he is not hung over although I think it may be little late by then! Good luck this wkend! Be into the dreaded 2ww then! Must stay positive!!!