anyone want a ttc#1 buddy?

[DaretoDream]

My temp did another jump today at 6 dpo. Im at 98.9 today- so hoping!!!!!!!!!!

 

[KittyCat82]

hello girlies-hope you doing ok all-good luck dare hope this is your month-sorry af got you tick tock, dan-o- I feel your frustration! I hope you dont mind me just popping in, I said I wouldnt be able to stay away anyway I had my test results for cd3 today-the dr hadn't rung so I gave them quick call. Anyway the receptionist said that they would only call if the Dr looked at them and there were any problems, as a result she checked mine and said they were "all normal and it says no action is needed". I am obviously pleased with this but cant remember exactly what they were testing for and i am worried I should have asked for numbers? I could always ask for all the numbers when I get my next lot I suppose, but do you think that's ok? We are still going with the NTNP for few months anyway-had a look on the NTNP thread but some of them are like NTNP but also taking temps, using OPK's etc and I am like what? Isnt that TTC?! x x x

 

[DaretoDream]

lol i have a girl like that at work. She's ntnp but she's definitely temping and going to be charting soon. i think it's ttc!

 

[dan-o]

What happened to everyone?!

 

[KittyCat82]

Hey dan-o I was thinking the same, I thought perhaps you had all started in thread without me!! How's it going?? I've been looking out for any bfp's!! I'm not doing too good tbh-was really doing ok with the ntnp lark and feeling so much less stressed then.....I was walking through town with my mum and there was a lady doing palm/tarot etc-I said to my mum I'd always wanted one so went to look and she kinda quickly talked me into a palm reading. Anyway some things she said didn't mean much then she said "you are trying to conceive" she said I'd have 3 children but it wouldn't be easy she said something about my "tubes" she also then went on to say I had a scar in my stomach-I nearly fell off my chair-I have a massive scar from when my appendix burst when I was 13. Anyway, I asked what age she saw for kids and she said 34!! I'm 28!! For some reason I am irrationally upset by it..I've been looking up blocked tubes! Is it true you would have no symptoms? Have you had an hsg done? X x

 

[dan-o]

Maybe eveyone else is NTNP, I tried that this month, but it didn't work & we ended up having a shaggathon instead, lol!!!

Anyway, wow @ the reading kitty! I'm not sure how I would react either. I think the main thing is to keep a PMA & not take it too seriously

Perhaps you can ask your GP for a referral to get the HSG done if you are worried about adhesions from the scar? My mum had adhesions from an appendix op, they were affecting her tubes I think. They found them & sorted them out when she had her lap & dye done & she then went on to conceive several times afterwards, one of which stuck & became my little sister!

I've not had an HSG done yet, but I probably will have one soon. xx

 

[KittyCat82]

Thanks dan-o. I might mention it if I speak to dr when I get my next set of results but I am worried they will just say that Ill have to wait until at least next year and then it may take 6 months or so to get appointment. I'll be totally honest with you now, I have got pregnant before...when I was 17 and not in a position to have a baby. So I know I can get pregnant since have burst appendix. Of course something else could have happened over the last 11 years...anyway I can't let what a complete stranger who met me for 5 mins get me down too much and on the plus, at least she said I would have them!! Enough of my mad ramblings-how are you getting on? X

 

[KittyCat82]

Just seen you have FS app in Sep-good for you hun-did your dr refer you or is it private? X

 

[dan-o]

I went to see a different GP. She was more sympathetic & said I obvioulsy can conceive & it's probably only a matter of time, but referred me anyway, as it was what I wanted

I got a cancellation slot, hence not having to wait long for an appt! x

 

[dan-o]

How long have you been trying for now kitty?

 

[DaretoDream]

Hey i'm still around but no one has written in so long! Lol thought i was the only one left. How is everyone doing? Dan-o? Any good signs?


Kitty- i wouldn't take it like that. I know it's hard, but you can't trust it.

 

[KittyCat82]

Hi daretodream-yeah I know it could all be a load of rubbish but I think ttc makes youva bit desperate at times! I'm not a bit loopy, honest!! Good to hear from you-how's things? Dan-o, that's good news I'm glad your new dr is nice. It's been since dec 09 not using anything and I'd say since feb/mar really ttc-I know it's not that long compared to some people and if it takes 1-2 years that's fine. For some reason I have this uneasy panicky feeling it's going to take years and years.. But I guess everyone feels like that after a few months?! X x x

 

[DaretoDream]

Yeah we're only in our third cycle and i'm already feeling that. I guess i just figured a long time ago it would be a one try kinda thing. how stupid! Now i'm like 'oh god is this ever going to happen?' And, it's ok to be loopy. I know i am!

 

[dan-o]

Hi dare!

Yeah it definitely seems to me like it's going to take forever!

It's really hard visualising being pregnant when you do all you can each month & AF still arrives bang on time! Miscarriages really knock your confidence too.

I'm sure it's just a matter of time for all of us really tho

& hopefully sooner rather than later!! x

 

[dan-o]

OMG, your ticker has just scared the life out of me, dare... is xmas really so close?

Yikes!!!

 

[DaretoDream]

Ha that's hilarious because i did the same thing. I saw the ticker and was like 'what the!' because i have to start thinking about it! Usually i'm done shopping and everything in october so i don't have to worry- because after halloween- BANG its christmas. So i let myself take it easy!! But this year, jeez i only have one month to plan anything!

 

[ticktock]

hello everyone!

thats cool ur fs apt is so soon dan-o, glad you got a nice gp to refer you

try not to worry kittycat, I'm sure you're fine! i know how you feel tho about panicing cos its not happened yet and worrying it'll never happen, I feel like that all the time!

I've been v good this month, no opks or anything. But have no idea if/when ov'd as been getting ewcm for 5-6 days now but am hoping am ov'd before now as went camping this weekend so haven't dtd since weds! Have felt more relaxed about the whole ttc thing which is good tho.

just previewed this post and seen I'm on day 24?! So I must've ov'd by now surely lol the latest I've ever ov'd is day 19/20 and really don't want it to start getting any later

 

[DaretoDream]

any ladies have multiple kinds of cm during the day? Today around noon when i went to the loo was very eggwhite like- VERY stretchy. However now is just creamy. Thoughts? That might sound like a really stupid question... but i'm very serious! What would you record your cm like today?

 

[KittyCat82]

Hello girls-how are we all doing? Dare-I get v confused about CM! I definately see a change in it throughout my cycle, but like you seem to get different types on same day...this month I thought I had ov'd then (TMI ALERT) day after got loads of watery/ewcm tinged with blood. I also seem to have very few days where I have nothing-I dont know if this means anything?

Anyways-just spoken to Dr's, second lot of bloods come back normal-no action needed so I am obviously oving. I have booked an app to see Dr in couple of weeks to go through them. So the only thing I am trying not to worry about now is blocked tubes?!

A friend who has been trying since Nov 09 told me yesterday she is pregnant-I didnt take it too well for some reason. Today I am happy for her tho. We are meeting on Sat afternoon so I may need a few glasses of wine Sat night! I have also been smoke free for 2 weeks now (Did I mention before I smoked?) Have to say I really quite loved it, but I am coping ok with not smoking-easier than I though tho perhaps the irritabilty is slightly down to no nicotine!! x

 

[DaretoDream]

kitty- Yeah i had the ew tinged with blood this am, but i don't have the ew all the time. It will be at a point during the day- and i'm reading that it seems pretty common with some ladies.

So glad your bloods came back normal- and hoping that your tubes are just fine.

Congrats to your friend who is now expecting- I know it's really hard, but we have to be supportive! Sucks doesn't it?