Mervs Mum
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I know there are a couple of others here with older kids - just wondered if anyone had girls aged 14 or older?
Emily is 15 this year. Quite an immature 14 yr old, looks her age (I'm sure she wishes she did ) still watches Hannah Montana, no boyfriend as yet.
I know she speaks to lads in a way that would make me because she's banned from MSN etc after I saw a convo that made my hair curl.
We are very open. We have spoken as lenght about sex. She cringes but I dont care. I am doing what my parents did for me and it worked as I have been pregnant twice, both planned and never had a 'scare'.
She knows the importance of not only avoiding unwanted pregnancies but of protecting her own sexual health. My Auntie runs an AIDS sanctuary and she's seen that it's not just full of gay men, but women and dying children too. She knows I believe 'no glove-no love'
She's sat next to me at the Drs at a 'joint' appointment where the Dr talked to ME about contraception... I'm sure sure she didnt want to contemplate me and hubby and me saying we use condoms but again, I make no appologies!
So where do you stand on putting your girls on say the pill or an other contraception? My Mum didnt 'put' me on the pill - I went when I was 17 and thought that my boyfriend and I were moving in that 'direction'.
I think I'll play it by ear but I do think I'll want to help to get her on something when she becomes active - maybe the depo injection so she doesnt have to remember it although I havent checked if this isn't advised in very young women yet - say 16.
I'd only really like opinions if you have direct experience with your own kids of this kind of age or maybe yourself or your sister or niece. Thanks!
Emily is 15 this year. Quite an immature 14 yr old, looks her age (I'm sure she wishes she did ) still watches Hannah Montana, no boyfriend as yet.
I know she speaks to lads in a way that would make me because she's banned from MSN etc after I saw a convo that made my hair curl.
We are very open. We have spoken as lenght about sex. She cringes but I dont care. I am doing what my parents did for me and it worked as I have been pregnant twice, both planned and never had a 'scare'.
She knows the importance of not only avoiding unwanted pregnancies but of protecting her own sexual health. My Auntie runs an AIDS sanctuary and she's seen that it's not just full of gay men, but women and dying children too. She knows I believe 'no glove-no love'
She's sat next to me at the Drs at a 'joint' appointment where the Dr talked to ME about contraception... I'm sure sure she didnt want to contemplate me and hubby and me saying we use condoms but again, I make no appologies!
So where do you stand on putting your girls on say the pill or an other contraception? My Mum didnt 'put' me on the pill - I went when I was 17 and thought that my boyfriend and I were moving in that 'direction'.
I think I'll play it by ear but I do think I'll want to help to get her on something when she becomes active - maybe the depo injection so she doesnt have to remember it although I havent checked if this isn't advised in very young women yet - say 16.
I'd only really like opinions if you have direct experience with your own kids of this kind of age or maybe yourself or your sister or niece. Thanks!