I read and participate in both forums, even though my fallopian tubes have been blocked since I was 19 (nine years). No way to do it without help. I don't see any reason to not come right here if there's a problem or it's been a while, and, truthfully, I'm bothered by how many online communities I've seen that say you MUST be TTC for at least a full year, no matter what, to get to join the sections for long-term or fertility issues as a way to "prove", I guess, that you mean it. I don't quality since I've only been trying, by their standard, since November, when we started our first IVF cycle (we've since done a second cycle, plus an FET). Which was stupid, and why I'm on this forum. Nicer people, more open-minded.