lilgemsy
First baby! (boy)
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Im excited - scan later! 
This is the earliest Ive being awake in a while lol.
FOB text me and woke me up saying, "Hey seems as though we r gunna have a tiny baby ive looked it up and its natural sometimes for baby not to keepup with his growth. Ill ring u later and explain"
He's thick... It was him who didn't understand that, not me.
And after him denying his own child and not even apologising when he now knows hes very much in the wrong then he's lost his chance.
Ive decided what to do about the whole thing... cut him out.
Going to find out how much CSA is and if its worth it then I will be getting that off him. Sure, he can ask for shared custody and I cant deny that if it happens but at least that'd show that he actually WANTS to be there, I guess.
But if he ever fucks with my child the way he fucks with me then Ill just get the proof of him doing it and fight for full custody.
Ill never stop Ollie knowing who his dad is - every child has a right to a father. But I cant stop his dad being a prick and I wont be able to sit back and watch him upset my child the way he upsets me.
So untill the baby is born then I wont be answering any calls or texts or anything off him. He will be non-existant to me! Ill let him know when the baby is actually born though but then thats it.
Do yous think thats an ok thing to do?
This is the earliest Ive being awake in a while lol.FOB text me and woke me up saying, "Hey seems as though we r gunna have a tiny baby ive looked it up and its natural sometimes for baby not to keepup with his growth. Ill ring u later and explain"
He's thick... It was him who didn't understand that, not me.
And after him denying his own child and not even apologising when he now knows hes very much in the wrong then he's lost his chance.
Ive decided what to do about the whole thing... cut him out.
Going to find out how much CSA is and if its worth it then I will be getting that off him. Sure, he can ask for shared custody and I cant deny that if it happens but at least that'd show that he actually WANTS to be there, I guess.
But if he ever fucks with my child the way he fucks with me then Ill just get the proof of him doing it and fight for full custody.
Ill never stop Ollie knowing who his dad is - every child has a right to a father. But I cant stop his dad being a prick and I wont be able to sit back and watch him upset my child the way he upsets me.
So untill the baby is born then I wont be answering any calls or texts or anything off him. He will be non-existant to me! Ill let him know when the baby is actually born though but then thats it.
Do yous think thats an ok thing to do?
that lasted for a little while...What was that??? LO seems to be fine and is still kicking but i was wondering if anyone else has experienced this?? 
oh well i suppose its a good sign everything is going back as it should. Ive just had to inject myself with a drug called clexane. Apparently im at a high risk of getting DVT so have got to have these injections for a week. Babies have been good as gold today, i just hope they sleep a little better tonight. we are going to try putting them next to each other in the cot to see if that helps. They've been together in the moses basket for a few hours and havent stirred. I think im getting my pregnancy cravings now lol, ive had no appetite throughout my whole pregnancy but i have to have some cheese and crackers so im going to go and do some. I weighed myself today and im 2 stone lighter than i was at booking in. Im going to go to weight watchers after my postnatal check,i could still do with loosing a bit of weight.
feeding every 2-3 hours and loves cuddles
