I had a really great conversation with my mother in law this morning. Our baby girl was conceived via sperm donor and that makes my husband's family uncomfortable. My husband's sister's hate me, literally, so much so that his one sister says that if I show up to her daughter's wedding, she'll scratch my eyes out and beat me to an unrecognizeable state.
Anyway, I knew his family was not comfortable with the idea of our daughter not being biologically his, but his mother reassured me this morning that she will be loved and cared for as if she were related by DNA. She understands now that my husband's decision to raise her is one that was not come across easily but that he loves her all the same. She went on to tell me that I probably will have to be careful around my nieces and nephews who are the type who have so much spite that they will tell her that he's not her biological dad, but honestly, I don't care. Anberlin is going to know, biological or not, that her Daddy loves her more than anything.
Finally, and this caught me by surprise, my mother in law asked me what I still needed for her "granddaughter" and offered to take me out next week to get those last few items.
I feel so much more comfortable bringing her into the family now. I'm so happy that, at least by most members, she will be loved and accepted.