Are you planning on telling your family and/or friends that your TTC, when the time comes?
Personally, me and my OH feel it is personal so we are going to keep it between ourselves and not tell anyone else until we are 12 weeks gone Not only is it because we feel it is private and intimate but it will also keep people from giving their unwanted opinions. Whilst my mum is looking forward to grandchildren, we know the rest of the family (although they'd support us) would not be excited about the prospect as much as we will be. We've already had the 'children are hard work' (as if i dont know that!) and 'plenty of time for children' remarks without even bringing the topic up! Although they want to the best for us, we are adults and will make our own minds up when it comes to us as a couple and our future family. (I think i might be a little bit of one of those 'don't tell me how to raise my child' mothers...eek! ).
Will you be keeping it between yourselves or telling others? What are your reasons for doing so?
Just curious!
Personally, me and my OH feel it is personal so we are going to keep it between ourselves and not tell anyone else until we are 12 weeks gone Not only is it because we feel it is private and intimate but it will also keep people from giving their unwanted opinions. Whilst my mum is looking forward to grandchildren, we know the rest of the family (although they'd support us) would not be excited about the prospect as much as we will be. We've already had the 'children are hard work' (as if i dont know that!) and 'plenty of time for children' remarks without even bringing the topic up! Although they want to the best for us, we are adults and will make our own minds up when it comes to us as a couple and our future family. (I think i might be a little bit of one of those 'don't tell me how to raise my child' mothers...eek! ).
Will you be keeping it between yourselves or telling others? What are your reasons for doing so?
Just curious!