Arguments and ttc? Help!

[Clovercandy]

Edit:

Update.

My husband is so stressed these days with newly being married and ttc as am I but were happy to say we will always be there for each other.

I'm still ttc. Can't wait to be pregnant

 

[purplecupcake]

Making assumptions, being dishonest, making someone feel guilty, and being suspicious don't sound like small or "stupid" arguments to me. Those are the kind of behaviors that ruin relationships. It might be wise to look into some marriage counseling to increase your communication skills. Getting pregnant and having a baby won't solve anything, in fact, it will most likely bring on more stressors, and arguing while pregnant or in front of a child is NOT something you want to be doing! Good luck, I hope you guys can work out your issues and create a healthy environment to welcome a baby into.

 

[cookette]

I second everything purple cupcake said. Those are serious issues to resolve, and a baby isn't going to improve anything if you're already having deep issues. Go to counseling and then re evaluate....best of luck hun, that's so stressful!

 

[tiramisu87]

I completely agree with the above posts. Couples make the mistake of thinking a baby with solve a struggling relationship. It won't. It usually does the opposite. Personally I think you should work on your marriage before bringing a baby into the situation. I suggest marriage counseling and taking your time to get things to a more loving, honest, healthy level.

Good luck.

 

[BeachyFeelin]

I agree with the other ladies. These don't sound like little things to fight about. They sound like big things.

I'm curious - you said you are suspicious. what about? And what are you trying to help him with?

It sounds like you two need to work on communication and really sit down and talk about what is going on in your marriage.

 

[Clovercandy]

I agree with the other ladies. These don't sound like little things to fight about. They sound like big things.

I'm curious - you said you are suspicious. what about? And what are you trying to help him with?

It sounds like you two need to work on communication and really sit down and talk about what is going on in your marriage.

This is that. But me assuming he's doing things like smoking behind my back etc will not help. When it comes to that I will be by his side because if anything... He feels overwhelmed at times and tries so hard to be the person he knows I deserve.

P.s I'm little miss innocent