jo_79
Mum 2 Chloe, Sam & Hollie
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A while ago i posted about my 10 yr old having a hard time at school. For various reasons, one being that she needed to be in a school for her last year to make friends before moving up to secondary school, if she stayed at her old school she'd have moved up to a secondary school in the town we live and would know nobody.
So she moved schools at easter and the class she went into was a split year group, some yr 5 like her and the others yr 6, she made a couple of friends but they were yr 6 and moved up to secondary school in september, it seems a lot of the others she just didnt get on with (she does find it hard to make friends). She was dreading going back to school and having no friends, so she went back and luckily made a new friend who just moved to that school in her class, they hung out everyday after school too. At half term her friend moved back to her old school cos she hated it so much and that the other kids were picking on her all the time (this girls old school was my 2nd choice to send chloe to) so now chloe is coming home everyday saying people wont play with her, call her names (they used to have 2 chloes - one was a lot taller so they called her big chloe and mine small chloe, they have now adapted this to smelly chloe) they tell her to go away when she tries to join in with them and one girl took chloes hands, pulled her close to her and stamped on her feet! My daughter is a bit of a drama queen and i've told her to try and fit in with the nicer kids but she says she cant and that she wants to move schools either back to her old one or the other one that was my 2nd choice. I have been in to speak to her teacher who says that chloe seemed to be ok with the other kids in the class and had 2 good friends (1 of which is now gone)
She cant move back to her old school its just too much of a pain logistically and it doesnt solve the dilemma of knowing no one in the secondary school she'll go to. ive told her to stick it out and just try making friends but every day she walks home on her own and she says she spends break and lunch walking round on her own.
I feel so sad that she is on her own at school and just dont know if i should move her or not.
Any input is welcome and well done for getting to the end!
Jo
So she moved schools at easter and the class she went into was a split year group, some yr 5 like her and the others yr 6, she made a couple of friends but they were yr 6 and moved up to secondary school in september, it seems a lot of the others she just didnt get on with (she does find it hard to make friends). She was dreading going back to school and having no friends, so she went back and luckily made a new friend who just moved to that school in her class, they hung out everyday after school too. At half term her friend moved back to her old school cos she hated it so much and that the other kids were picking on her all the time (this girls old school was my 2nd choice to send chloe to) so now chloe is coming home everyday saying people wont play with her, call her names (they used to have 2 chloes - one was a lot taller so they called her big chloe and mine small chloe, they have now adapted this to smelly chloe) they tell her to go away when she tries to join in with them and one girl took chloes hands, pulled her close to her and stamped on her feet! My daughter is a bit of a drama queen and i've told her to try and fit in with the nicer kids but she says she cant and that she wants to move schools either back to her old one or the other one that was my 2nd choice. I have been in to speak to her teacher who says that chloe seemed to be ok with the other kids in the class and had 2 good friends (1 of which is now gone)
She cant move back to her old school its just too much of a pain logistically and it doesnt solve the dilemma of knowing no one in the secondary school she'll go to. ive told her to stick it out and just try making friends but every day she walks home on her own and she says she spends break and lunch walking round on her own.
I feel so sad that she is on her own at school and just dont know if i should move her or not.
Any input is welcome and well done for getting to the end!
Jo