I'm at a loss ladies and Im going crazy. I feel bad even writing this but I'm having a really hard time bonding with chase. he cries alllllll the time. and its not just crying its wailing and screaming at the top of his lungs until his face turns purple. he may stay content for 10-20 minutes at a time if I'm lucky and then he cries again. he kicks his legs like he's in pain or constipated, even after he just pooped. it used to just be at one time during the night 8-10 or 11-1 now its all day fussing and crying
he has a lot of reflux symptoms too i think, he hiccups like 3 times a day, spits up every time he eats, cries after he eats, makes this weird gulping sound that sounds like something is trying to come up and then he cries after that happens. I just don't know what to do I'm going insane by myself while OH is at work, I don't even have time to eat anymore let alone pee. He also fights his sleep all day because he cries so much and wears himself out and then can't sleep. The longest he napped today was 20 minutes at a time and hell stay awake for 2-3 hours except for little 10 minute drift offs in my arms and the second i put him down he screams. I feel like such a bad mother. I know that I'm not, Im doing everything i can think of to try and keep him happy and soothe him I just don't know what else to do anymore.
colic/reflux/gas?? any ideas?