Aussies trying to get duffered aged 20+ !!!

[Melainey]

Thank you 2mums xxx

I know it's not right to think them but when I sit at home all alone 7 days a week because I can'tfind a job and then my husband doesn't want to touch me it is hard to think anything else haha!

Oh well enough about my self pitty What the hell is my chart doing? Haha it disregarded the really high temp and then the lower one after it? Weird as

 

[Trying2b2mums]

I know exactly what you're going through, to an extent. My OH and I had a time like that, bc i was bored, not working, no friends here, home alone all the time, so when she got home i wanted all the time and attention, and it created some problems. But is also right, they dont realize the other side and how it makes us feel, the fact that you need some attention and need to feel loved, wanted and needed, and important. I still sometimes have days and weeks when I feel like i'm not 'given enough time'. It does help to go out and do something, and keep myself busy, and interact with other people so im not so attention starved. I'm sure it wont last long, he'll come right, and you two will find a happy medium! we love ya heaps

 

[Pauls_angel]

LLPM - thanks for saying hi to AJ for me! Really is such a small world!

Melainey - my DH went through a phase like that last month... we got into several arguments about it... eventually I left it for a few days and then talked it out while we were both calm... he said he had no idea why he was having trouble getting in the mood.. he offered to go to the dr and get a check up... the dr said low libido can be attributed to stress and that selling our house, etc was likely the result. Funny thing was that as soon as he knew that he was less stressed about not being in the mood and all was back to normal again. Hope you guys can sort it out soon but my advice would be just to leave it for a while... xx

 

[Rosie_PA]

Melainey he may just have other things on his mind (job, finances, etc) and take it out on his poor DW! Men, could really just punch them sometimes!!! On a side note I have no idea what your chart is doing....but mine looks pretty crazy too...hmmmmm. Lol

 

[Melainey]

Thanks ladies

I think I can see it more because I don't have that many friends over here and all my family are back home and I don't think he really gets it... Like I know he inderstands that I am homesick ( he would be an idiot if he didn't I cry all the time about it haha ) But he still "hates" being with me.. This has been like this for months now and he would never admit there is something wrong.. He just ignores it.. I know he is stressed about work, bills etc but still doesn't mean he can't spend time with me! Bloody men I swear!! haha

 

[Melainey]

Melainey he may just have other things on his mind (job, finances, etc) and take it out on his poor DW! Men, could really just punch them sometimes!!! On a side note I have no idea what your chart is doing....but mine looks pretty crazy too...hmmmmm. Lol

Haha Yay for crazy charts

 

[lisamfr]

Hi Melainey, Sorry to hear HD is giving you a hard time. Men.....can’t live with them & can’t live without them. Maybe give him a day or two & then try talking to him again.

I know it’s not the same but we are here for you any time of the day/night. I am happy to give you my mobile number if you ever feel like chatting

 

[Melainey]

That you so much Lisa

I love you guys sooooo much Maybe I should have married all of you instead No grief would be had hehe

 

[Pauls_angel]

That you so much Lisa

I love you guys sooooo much Maybe I should have married all of you instead No grief would be had hehe

Hehehe if you married nanna there may be some grief - between her mood swings, her biatch hat, her cane and her gun I think her DH is lucky to be alive

 

[Trying2b2mums]

That you so much Lisa

I love you guys sooooo much Maybe I should have married all of you instead No grief would be had hehe

Hehehe if you married nanna there may be some grief - between her mood swings, her biatch hat, her cane and her gun I think her DH is lucky to be alive

 

[Melainey]

Angel hahahahahahah

You are right, Thank god doesn't know where we live or I may be a widow very soon hehehehehehe

 

[Newbie32]

Bahahahahahahaha

 

[Newbie32]

Thats what you think my pretty........oooohhaaaaahhahahhahahahhaha

 

[Melainey]

You girls crack me up hahaha!

Just had some porridge andit made me feel yuky Hate being sick

 

[Newbie32]

I think im going to head home in about half an hour, sick of the sight of my office!

Wonder if it will be another teary trip home...FX NOT!!!! I dont seem to be quite as irrational today as i was yesterday

 

[Melainey]

Aww I hope you don't Feel better hunny xx

 

[Maddy40]

Morning gals! Well since I started my shift mid-afternoon it feels like morning to me, anyway.

Ginny fx everything stays sticky for you. I know I will be extra vigilant if we get a BFP because of our earlier loss...

WantABub I think you won't really get a handle on your cycle until you've been off the pill a while. Fx this is a BFP though

Newbie you'll be pleased to know I did your gym-ing for you this morning, about 8km in all (4km run & 4km walk). Down from the 10km I used to do several times a week this time last year but at least it's something.

Melainey DH had better start training his mouth for when a bub arrives. He'll be surprised how quickly they latch onto Daddy's swear words! Hope the rough bump resolves itself. Can you arrange some volunteer work a couple of days a week to keep you busy?

 

[Maddy40]

Angel thanks for updating the front page. I'm in the sunny capital - Canberra and I'm 40!

 

[Pammy31]

He doesn't even do that all that much but It just feels like he is always making excuses not to have with me? Maybe i'm not good enough for him! Is it normal for men to have a low sex drive?

Melainey my love.... Peter my partner has a low sex drive and only wants 4 or 5 times a month. So I know how you feel. BTW a womans sexual peak is in her 30's!! That explains me lol...

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3e81a3/thumb.png
My Ovulation Chart

https://tickers.TickerFactory.com/ezt/d/0;1;10766;467/st/20120718/o/19/l/34/dt/12/k/a91a/ttc.png

https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/tickers/testing-1345611600z4z24z2z20.png

TTC Buddies with SBinRI, Pauls_angel, mrsmoomoo, Katherine1209, Melainey, Newbie32, Lisamfr and Commie

 

[Maddy40]

He doesn't even do that all that much but It just feels like he is always making excuses not to have with me? Maybe i'm not good enough for him! Is it normal for men to have a low sex drive?

Melainey my love.... Peter my partner has a low sex drive and only wants 4 or 5 times a month. So I know how you feel. BTW a womans sexual peak is in her 30's!! That explains me lol...

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3e81a3/thumb.png
My Ovulation Chart

https://tickers.TickerFactory.com/ezt/d/0;1;10766;467/st/20120718/o/19/l/34/dt/12/k/a91a/ttc.png

https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/tickers/testing-1345611600z4z24z2z20.png

TTC Buddies with SBinRI, Pauls_angel, mrsmoomoo, Katherine1209, Melainey, Newbie32, Lisamfr and Commie

We're similar - hubby doesn't have low drive but he is in his late 30s and just needs a few extra days "recovery time" between sessions. We can dtd every second day for about a week and then he needs 3-4 days off to stock up his manly supplies again!