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[Mum 2 Quigley]

Well I officially feel like crap! Doctor just said that I couldn't be pregnant yet as it takes 6 to 12 months, that tiredness isn't an early sign of pregnancy and basically that I'm stupid!!!!! Found it so hard not to cry when I walked to my car.

He didn't seem bothered about my exhaustion or lack of apetite! Just said maybe I have a virus! Wish I hadn't bothered!

so sorry little Jayney!!! what do you mean it takes 6-12 months???

i had my grapefruit juice, it was yum yum yum. i really enjoyed it!!!

DH & I don't BD during AF, but if I'm spotting he doesn't mind & isn't grossed out by it if I ever have bleeding after if it's close to my period...and he buys tampons etc if I ask him, but my af doesn't last long anyway, so it's never a huge drama.

 

[Pauls_angel]

Mum2Q my DH copes fine with a little bit of bleeding after BD but that is only cos he attributes it to him being well endowed and claims all the credit.... have never been with another man to compare dingdongs with so I guess I have to take his word for it

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Angel - FX for you!! hoping it's a BFP around the corner for you!! not long now, it's alomost wed!!!!!

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Mum2Q my DH copes fine with a little bit of bleeding after BD but that is only cos he attributes it to him being well endowed and claims all the credit.... have never been with another man to compare dingdongs with so I guess I have to take his word for it

hahaha that's awesome! so funny. such a male thing to say!! hehe

 

[SJayne22]

Well I officially feel like crap! Doctor just said that I couldn't be pregnant yet as it takes 6 to 12 months, that tiredness isn't an early sign of pregnancy and basically that I'm stupid!!!!! Found it so hard not to cry when I walked to my car.

He didn't seem bothered about my exhaustion or lack of apetite! Just said maybe I have a virus! Wish I hadn't bothered!

so sorry little Jayney!!! what do you mean it takes 6-12 months???

i had my grapefruit juice, it was yum yum yum. i really enjoyed it!!!

DH & I don't BD during AF, but if I'm spotting he doesn't mind & isn't grossed out by it if I ever have bleeding after if it's close to my period...and he buys tampons etc if I ask him, but my af doesn't last long anyway, so it's never a huge drama.

Basically I asked if I could have a blood test and he just said no because I wouldn't be pregnant as it takes atleast 6 to 12 months! Felt about a inch tall!

 

[Pauls_angel]

Angel - FX for you!! hoping it's a BFP around the corner for you!! not long now, it's alomost wed!!!!!

OOOOH I so hope you're right! Just concerned because I was sick that maybe I stuffed up this cycle. If AF does come today or tomorrow then it means I only have a 7 or 8 day LP which would suck! I know taking B group vitamins can help lengthen LP any other ideas for lengthening LP...hoping I won't need to worry but would love to know so I am better equipped next time I need to worry about ttc - whether it be next month or next bub! xx

 

[Trying2b2mums]

Jayne- any chance of another DR? or wait til you get here, much nicer!!!

mum2q- glad you enjoyed your juice. FX for a sticky egg!!

angel- i have high hopes for you too!!

 

[Pauls_angel]

Jayne I still think he is a jerk... can you see another DR?

AFM I braved up and went to the loo... actually I couldn't hold on any more! When I wiped there was barely anything at all - just the tiniest hint of pale pale pink... feeling slightly more hopeful but trying not to get my hopes up... gee my emotions are all over the place this week! Poor DH! He high fived me though when I happily came bouncing out of the loo after seeing no blood on the loo paper! Gotta love him, such a bloke!

xx

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Well I officially feel like crap! Doctor just said that I couldn't be pregnant yet as it takes 6 to 12 months, that tiredness isn't an early sign of pregnancy and basically that I'm stupid!!!!! Found it so hard not to cry when I walked to my car.

He didn't seem bothered about my exhaustion or lack of apetite! Just said maybe I have a virus! Wish I hadn't bothered!

so sorry little Jayney!!! what do you mean it takes 6-12 months???

i had my grapefruit juice, it was yum yum yum. i really enjoyed it!!!

DH & I don't BD during AF, but if I'm spotting he doesn't mind & isn't grossed out by it if I ever have bleeding after if it's close to my period...and he buys tampons etc if I ask him, but my af doesn't last long anyway, so it's never a huge drama.

Basically I asked if I could have a blood test and he just said no because I wouldn't be pregnant as it takes atleast 6 to 12 months! Felt about a inch tall!

What a total WANKER!!!!! I can't believe he would say that. It's not as if you were being asked to be referred to a fertility specialist...it's perfectly normal for someone who is having unprotected sex while they are ovulating to be pregnant! I am just blown away that he would say that to you! It's one thing for a dr to keep your head in reality and say "don't be surprised if it takes longer than you expect" but to say that is just ridiculous....so untrue that it takes 6-12 months!!! It is for a lot of people, but how many time do you hear of people losing their virginity & getting pregnant (very unlucky!!! unless you've waited until marriage and are ttc from day 1...that would just be awesome! haha) sorry...off on a tangent there... I hope you're ok! just disregard what he says and try to play the waiting game as best you can! xxxxxx

 

[Trying2b2mums]

Jayne I still think he is a jerk... can you see another DR?

AFM I braved up and went to the loo... actually I couldn't hold on any more! When I wiped there was barely anything at all - just the tiniest hint of pale pale pink... feeling slightly more hopeful but trying not to get my hopes up... gee my emotions are all over the place this week! Poor DH! He high fived me though when I happily came bouncing out of the loo after seeing no blood on the loo paper! Gotta love him, such a bloke!

xx

i give you a virtual high five too!!! yay!!! I have my hopes up high enough, dont worry, got it covered!!! can you go to sleep now so you can temp earlier?

 

[LLPM]

Lol angel! DH's exactly the same...and I also don't have anyone to compare with! I guess that might be a weird concept for you other girlies hey?!
It never used to be an issue BD during AF til we had the kids. I think maybe DH saw too much blood in that region during childbirth and put him off a bit! Hehe. The whole birth process didn't put him off otherwise thankfully!
Sjayne, you need to see a different doctor! They all know for a fact it doesn't always take that long. I guess maybe he was trying to say on average people fall pregnant between 6-12months. This has some stats on it https://www.babycenter.com.au/preconception/activelytrying/howlongwillittake

 

[LLPM]

Oh my goodness...I did not mean to suggest you all slept around!! Sorry if that's how that came across!!

 

[Pauls_angel]

Jayne I still think he is a jerk... can you see another DR?

AFM I braved up and went to the loo... actually I couldn't hold on any more! When I wiped there was barely anything at all - just the tiniest hint of pale pale pink... feeling slightly more hopeful but trying not to get my hopes up... gee my emotions are all over the place this week! Poor DH! He high fived me though when I happily came bouncing out of the loo after seeing no blood on the loo paper! Gotta love him, such a bloke!

xx

i give you a virtual high five too!!! yay!!! I have my hopes up high enough, dont worry, got it covered!!! can you go to sleep now so you can temp earlier?

You are as bad as that chart stalking nanna Newbie!!! I wish I could temp earlier... but I'm not a great sleeper at the best of times so doubting an early night would result in an earlier temp... will update it the moment I wake up though so keep your eyes peeled at around 6am tomorrow!

 

[SJayne22]

I think i'll wait as its only 2 weeks now! What a jerk!!

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Angel - Yay for the spotting disappearing!!! hope AF stays away! I'm with 2mums - hopes are up HIGH for you this month!!! 5 BFP's last month - this month I'm hoping to get at least 3!!!

LLPM - haha that's funny. no offence taken! I believe in 'try before you buy' and just between us, I now know I have hit the absolute JACKPOT with the man I fell in love with & married!!

 

[Pauls_angel]

Jayne - Just keep POAS every few days I'm sure you'll get your bfp super soon!

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

I think i'll wait as its only 2 weeks now! What a jerk!!

I have just been stalking your chart, it looks great! But 11dpo is still very early! I wouldn't mind betting you get your BFP in 3-4 days, and if you do, I would take the piss stick and shove it in his face!!!

 

[Trying2b2mums]

hahaha Angel, now come on, we all know i'm not up at 6am, but i like knowing its there, at 10, when i do manage to get on the comp,

Llmp- i wont speak for everyone, but i for one did not take your comment like that. I think its great you two have only been with your husbands. My sister had one before her husband. Everyone is different, I had my fair share of men back in the day, i joke and say i had more than enough and got sick of them! But never had a disease, or anything else negative so all good, and i dont take offense, bc everyone is different. I do feel that sex is so much better with someone you care about though, amazingly better!!!
Angel- i'm sure DH wouldnt lie to you, and he's very well taken care of down there

 

[Pauls_angel]

Angel - Yay for the spotting disappearing!!! hope AF stays away! I'm with 2mums - hopes are up HIGH for you this month!!! 5 BFP's last month - this month I'm hoping to get at least 3!!!

LLPM - haha that's funny. no offence taken! I believe in 'try before you buy' and just between us, I now know I have hit the absolute JACKPOT with the man I fell in love with & married!!

Thanks Mum2Q - I hope so too! xx

 

[SJayne22]

Well I officially feel like crap! Doctor just said that I couldn't be pregnant yet as it takes 6 to 12 months, that tiredness isn't an early sign of pregnancy and basically that I'm stupid!!!!! Found it so hard not to cry when I walked to my car.

He didn't seem bothered about my exhaustion or lack of apetite! Just said maybe I have a virus! Wish I hadn't bothered!

so sorry little Jayney!!! what do you mean it takes 6-12 months???

i had my grapefruit juice, it was yum yum yum. i really enjoyed it!!!

DH & I don't BD during AF, but if I'm spotting he doesn't mind & isn't grossed out by it if I ever have bleeding after if it's close to my period...and he buys tampons etc if I ask him, but my af doesn't last long anyway, so it's never a huge drama.

Basically I asked if I could have a blood test and he just said no because I wouldn't be pregnant as it takes atleast 6 to 12 months! Felt about a inch tall!

What a total WANKER!!!!! I can't believe he would say that. It's not as if you were being asked to be referred to a fertility specialist...it's perfectly normal for someone who is having unprotected sex while they are ovulating to be pregnant! I am just blown away that he would say that to you! It's one thing for a dr to keep your head in reality and say "don't be surprised if it takes longer than you expect" but to say that is just ridiculous....so untrue that it takes 6-12 months!!! It is for a lot of people, but how many time do you hear of people losing their virginity & getting pregnant (very unlucky!!! unless you've waited until marriage and are ttc from day 1...that would just be awesome! haha) sorry...off on a tangent there... I hope you're ok! just disregard what he says and try to play the waiting game as best you can! xxxxxx

POW!!! You really know how to make someone feel better! Thank you