Aussies trying to get duffered aged 20+ !!!

[Abby27]

Lisa that doesnt look like an evap line to me! test again!

Thanks Mum2Q...probably does help that AF tends to make me teary and more emotional ANY WAY, so my normal logical self abandons me and im this blubbering mess! (now im crying at work...i f**king hate that)...i just cant even picture it happening for me.

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Oh you poor thing! Are you able to take part of the day off? Hugs for you!!

Lisa, I'm going with you on evap, but I still think you're duffers and just haven't gotten the second line yet!!!

 

[Maddy40]

Outcome is that I have to go back in a month to have laparoscopy basically I get knocked out while the cut a whole in my belly button and puts a camera in there to check out my tubes to see if they are blocked. 3 options for me are.....
1. I get pregnant naturally
2. My tubes are clear and they do IUI
3. My tubes are blocked and I have to IVF straight away

Kiwi glad the appointment was okay. Did the Dr explain why they are going to do a Lap straight away and no HSG first? HSG is far less invasive and you don't have any recovery time (as there's no cutting involved). Heaps of people report getting BFPs either the same cycle or next cycle after HSG because the tubes get cleared out by the dye.

Anyways, hope you have a great time away!

 

[cossime]

Hi girls, I think i'm on the way to AF's arrival too Thanks Quigley re the advice on the temp which means I am slowly coming down. I feel like sheeeeeeeetttttttttttt-boo.

Abby and Quigley, I wish there was something we could do to take everyone's miserableness when this shit just doesn't work. I never thought I would be in this position having know my cycle like the back of my hand for so long but clearly, in the end it's beyond our control. I'm off to cry too now and wollow if the likes of google...

Lisa, please test again using FMU!!! We need some good news on this board!!!

Good morning to the others! I do hope it is a better morning for you all than it is for me...xx

 

[Maddy40]

Morning all. Hope everyone has a good day. I'm on my second day off.

It's the first nice Spring day here so I'm headed into the garden to dig and plant vegies. Gotta get my Vit D levels up

 

[Newbie32]

Hi girls, it sounds like it has been a tough night/morning.

Smithy - a line is a line!! Ive never seen an evap on an frer...

Mum2q you poor darling xxxx i hope you are feeling a bit better this morning xx

Kiwi i hope that the appointment is able to give you some clarity on the situation, so youknow what you dealing with. Enjoy your holiday - i hope you have a ball xx

Sorry the witch got you too Abby,

I am so glad that we have each other girls, it really does make dealing with this month in, month out. Even if we cant use the word bas tards on here!!!

Much love xxx

 

[Abby27]

Sorry im being Abby whingy pants this morning...but another woman at work just told me "quietly" that she was duffed...it was sort of mid sentence as she was explaining something else...

YES thankyou universe for seeing the opportunity to whack me down a little bit further.
i think the only people who arent duffered here now are the ladies in their mid 60s (who are expecting grandchildren) and me! We are going to have a significant work shortage soon.

 

[cossime]

Sorry im being Abby whingy pants this morning...but another woman at work just told me "quietly" that she was duffed...it was sort of mid sentence as she was explaining something else...

YES thankyou universe for seeing the opportunity to whack me down a little bit further.
i think the only people who arent duffered here now are the ladies in their mid 60s (who are expecting grandchildren) and me! We are going to have a significant work shortage soon.

to you Abby xx

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Cossime, your temp can still jump back up, just wait and see. Hop she stays away!

Sash, thanks! Xxxx hope you have a good day!

Abby, that's the worst! Nana can probably feel your pain there, she is surrounded by duffered people in her office too!!! Hope you're ok!

I know of other people who are ttc or have little ones and I think it might be time for another, and I just think 'oh I hope it's me first!' so mean!

 

[Newbie32]

Sorry im being Abby whingy pants this morning...but another woman at work just told me "quietly" that she was duffed...it was sort of mid sentence as she was explaining something else...

YES thankyou universe for seeing the opportunity to whack me down a little bit further.
i think the only people who arent duffered here now are the ladies in their mid 60s (who are expecting grandchildren) and me! We are going to have a significant work shortage soon.

Squigley is right Abby - there is a current pregnancy plague that has bounced through the two levels of staff in my office, and struck down basically every woman between the age of 26 and 40 except for me!!!! Well that and the other 2/3 that are off on maternity leave anyway. Ive tried everything, but its obviously not in the water like they all say, as they walk around rubbing their bellies! You would think that people would be a little more sensitive to the fact that they dont know who might be trying to get duffered and not just ramble on about pregnancy this, baby that ALL day. But no. They do. All day. Every day.

So i feel your pain hun!!!

XXX

EDIT: on that note, i am going to go and make a coffee and stop near all of their desks and let them know JUST how GOOD it tastes!!!!! Bahahahahahahaha (no decaf here for our coffee machine hehehe)

 

[Newbie32]

PS, my temps are ******** today!!! Hope im not getting early af or something as well!!!

EDIT: OMG another sensoring!!! you cant say re tarded either!!!!! BAHAHAHAHAHAHA

 

[Abby27]

life is just cruel sometimes. i know a woman who was on the pill, used a condom...DUFFERED. come the F**K on!

Any way i am very glad that i have found all of you ladies, and feel very safe here, so thank you all.

 

[Maddy40]

Sorry im being Abby whingy pants this morning...but another woman at work just told me "quietly" that she was duffed...it was sort of mid sentence as she was explaining something else...
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Bummer Abby. Soooo hate that. Does this woman know you are TTC? Maybe she wanted you to know before it was public, so you could be prepared?

 

[Maddy40]

PS, my temps are ******** today!!! Hope im not getting early af or something as well!!!

Awwww hun, sending you I know exactly how you feel, seeing temps headed down, down, down (sh*t, now I have that stupid Coles advert stuck in my head).

 

[Abby27]

thanks Nana, that made me laugh

 

[Newbie32]

Thanks Maddy

Cannot believe that we cant use the word re tarded without it getting starred out as well! Odd choices....what if you had a child that was mildly ******** and you were talking about it? Weird!!!

 

[Newbie32]

I cant believe ive been on this board for months and months, and dont get a single sensoring, and then it happens twice in two days!!!

Maybe bnb is onto me...cue evil laugh

BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

 

[Lisasmith]

Yeah it took 3 days so it's really an EVAP and I've been testing with fmu for 10 days now and all bfn's af is due tomorrow. I had a temp dip 4 days ago so I'll just keep waiting and seeing what happens. Cervix is still high, soft and still producing snotty cm.

 

[Abby27]

i so want to push the limits of the censorship....we all know what word we want to test

 

[Lisasmith]

I want to hug all you ladies! We have to get at least 1 this month, right?