Aussies trying to get duffered aged 20+ !!!

[Trying2b2mums]

mum2q- nice balls!!! hahah i was reading through and thinking well fuck it, i'll write it, but i am so glad you figured it out!!!
i agree with 2woohoo and i think some others that said, most pregnant woman dont even think about it, esp if they've never had issues falling or staying pregnant, and since most of the time they'd get a positive reaction about gushing about their pregnancy, kicking, clothes, decor etc, they just think the whole world wants to hear about it and is happy for them, and not that we're/you're not happy for them, its just like shut the fuck up and stop rubbing it in you stupid bitch. On the other hand, i think that even if some women had, had a hard time, once they fall they're too excited and talk about it all the time anyways, despite knowing full well it can hurt others. Despite us finally falling, we were lucky in the fact it happened the first time trying after a 9 month break, but the 8 cycles before then had failed, plus given everything we have to go through just in order to get the damn sperm, I can't imagine going on and on about it, esp bc i have one friend whos life went upside down pineapple cake on her, and she was meant to be married and have like 2 kids by now, and is left newly dating now, i know it will hurt/sting her when she finds out, so its amazing to me how insenstive some people are, everybody must know somebody who found ttc for whatever reason difficult, and those utd woman cannot blame it on baby brain, its selfish! ok sorry for that rant, not even sure if it makes sense, did in my head.
I'm ok, thank you for your concern, no sign of any blood or spotting, no cramping or pain, so not sure what i'll chalk yesterday up to, but im going to try to forget it and wait "patiently" til my next appointment. Was in tears reading this today, i want it so bad for all of you.
how was your coffee?!? did you manage to accidently spill it all over their work or anything??

 

[Melainey]

Hi Ladies

Read through everything but can't remember most hahaha

Kiwi - Glad you got your app with the FS.. Now forget about it while you are on holiday and have a great time

Maddy - Enjoy the gardening, it's so stormy over here haha bloody rain!

Abby - I hope that it is not the FX for you

Hopefully it's an implantation dip

Squigleypants - **** **** **** **** **** **** hehehehehe I love that word and can say it in at least 7 languages hahahahaha !!

Sorry to the ladies that have all the dufered ladies around! I hear ya on that one! Everyone I know has either just had a baby or is pregnant! The doctor told me to stop stressing but when I didn't stress I still didn't get pregnant and now that I am I am not getting pregnant either! Who fucking knows haha! If I don't get pregnant next month I am stopping TTC because I am not liking the person that I have become! Between not seeing my family in 3 years, not having a job, and not being capable of making a baby, I have had enough to be honest! I think that being stuck in my room on my own day in day out has finaly turned me into a crazy person! All I need now is 100 cats!

I can't remember anything else ladies but much love to you all

xxxx

EDIT: 2mums - Soooooo glad that you and the bean are ok

p.s my temp is right down today to what I got AF last month so she must be on the doorstep!

 

[Newbie32]

Thanks Ginny & Laineypoppadoda i reckon 5dpo bit early for implantation dip - and tbh i kinda wonder if there is such a thing!!!!! im remaining pretty convinced that there isnt any speggy action going on inside of me this month, i dont have any symptoms whatsoever!!! None. Maybe my body didnt produce much progesterone this month and thats why no sore nips and temp has dropped!

 

[Newbie32]

mum2q- nice balls!!! hahah i was reading through and thinking well fuck it, i'll write it, but i am so glad you figured it out!!!
i agree with 2woohoo and i think some others that said, most pregnant woman dont even think about it, esp if they've never had issues falling or staying pregnant, and since most of the time they'd get a positive reaction about gushing about their pregnancy, kicking, clothes, decor etc, they just think the whole world wants to hear about it and is happy for them, and not that we're/you're not happy for them, its just like shut the fuck up and stop rubbing it in you stupid bitch. On the other hand, i think that even if some women had, had a hard time, once they fall they're too excited and talk about it all the time anyways, despite knowing full well it can hurt others. Despite us finally falling, we were lucky in the fact it happened the first time trying after a 9 month break, but the 8 cycles before then had failed, plus given everything we have to go through just in order to get the damn sperm, I can't imagine going on and on about it, esp bc i have one friend whos life went upside down pineapple cake on her, and she was meant to be married and have like 2 kids by now, and is left newly dating now, i know it will hurt/sting her when she finds out, so its amazing to me how insenstive some people are, everybody must know somebody who found ttc for whatever reason difficult, and those utd woman cannot blame it on baby brain, its selfish! ok sorry for that rant, not even sure if it makes sense, did in my head.
I'm ok, thank you for your concern, no sign of any blood or spotting, no cramping or pain, so not sure what i'll chalk yesterday up to, but im going to try to forget it and wait "patiently" til my next appointment. Was in tears reading this today, i want it so bad for all of you.
how was your coffee?!? did you manage to accidently spill it all over their work or anything??

LOL 2mums, ive found it is quite awful for them to smell my delicious latte as i stroll around the office to 'drop off some papers'...to hear the audible 'oh how i miss coffee' to which reply 'mmmm, its delicious'

bahahahahha

 

[Trying2b2mums]

bring in some sushi too, a big platter of lunch meats, nicely sliced directly from the butcher accompanied with all the soft cheeses, and a lot of zucchini!!! and make some fresh brewed coffee, that'll show them!!! I think its hilarious!! I dont drink coffee, or eat raw fish sushi, but i am missing the hell out of fetta and zucchini! Make their preggo day!

 

[Newbie32]

hahahaha

Ate my lovely hot curry lunch in the vacinity of one of them who is English and i KNOW she loves hot curries and cant handle them anymore....i let her know how tasty it was!!!

hehehehe

Bitch badge alright.

 

[number2woohoo]

you're not supposed to eat feta when pregnant?
Hmm.
Amazing that Harrison is here, isn't it.
I think in reverse to most ppl, who are less careful with each pregnancy, I will be much more cautious with that sort of thing next time having lost a baby and questioned myself (stupidly, I know) as to if I may have done something to cause the m/c. With Harrison I was so easy going. I had ham sandwiches every day I was pregnant for lunch, most mums in my little group were not eating any deli meat at all. I ate the odd bit of soft cheese. I ate prawns. This time might be different. Damn that 'friend' of mine who said to me (on learning we'd lost the baby) that I probably drank it to death before I knew I was pregnant.

 

[Pauls_angel]

Hi Ladies! Yay for Tuesday arvo - my class are at Japanese and then Library so I am off the hook unitl I have to walk them to the carpark at home time! So so so tired - have only slept about 2 hours per night the last two nights - not sure if it is just cos I am in a different house (have stayed there before though and am in my own bed at their house now) or if it is just the insomnia caused by the thyroid thing - who knows?! Am seeing the doc again this arvo so maybe he can give me some answers!

2mums - so happy the bean is ok!!!

Ginny - nice to see you! You must be pretty close to 12 weeks now! Does Max know/understand that you are having a bub or are you waiting to tell him?

Praying that both those little beans stay really healthy and strong and that in 6-7 months we'll all be seeing gorgeous new born photos! I am all for people being sensitive about their dufferedness but don't want you two to censor anything - we want to know the lot!!! Can't wait to hear about first kicks, scans, baby clothes, nursery designs, etc from you 2!!!

Abby and Nana (and others going through the same thing) I'm sorry the girls at your work are being so "rub it in" about their pregnancies - I'm sure (well I'd hope) that they would feel really bad if they knew how offensive and insensitive they were being (except for maybe that gloater at your work Abby - she sounds very selfish!)

Kiwi - glad you finally have a way forward - praying that option number 1 happens for you really soon!

Maddy how much longer is your DH away? I am really hoping that you'll be right at the right point in your cycle to conceive when he gets home and that welcome home results in the conception of your own little bubba!

Number2 how are you today? How is that gorgeous little boy of yours? Was thinking maybe we should catch up for coffee at Wintso when I am on school hols - given you are so close!

Lucy - I am looking forward to meeting you this weekend! I will PM you my mobile number so we can meet up at the morning tea break or something!

Lainey - I really hope they sort your visa stuff out soon - sounds like you need a big squeezy hug from your mum! Know its not the same thing but I am sending one via to you!

Shell - you crack me up! I have never said that word let alone written it! I do have a good story about it though! When I was working in the tax building in the city in debt collection my team leader was a very shy, polite and lovely Sri Lankan lady. One day a client called her a c*** on the phone and she didn't know what it meant. She had forgotten about it by the end of the phone call so didn't ask anyone in the privacy of our office... rather she remembered as we were walking across the crowded lunch time rush of pitt st mall to get a bite to eat. She was trailing behind us when she called it out at the top of her lungs..."hey girls...what is c***?!" The poor thing - we were all a bit embarrassed so didn't answer her thinking we'd just tell her when we sat down - but she thought we hadn't heard her so called it out about 3 more times! One of the girls quickly ran to her and whispered the meaning in her ear... she was so so ashamed that she had yelled it out that she couldn't bring herself to eat - she ran back to the office red-faced and wrote an apoliogy email to all of us! She was such a sweet innocent boss - I miss her but can't help laughing about that story!

Hi Lisa (give Audrina a hug for me), Smithy, Pammy, Cossi, Rosie, Jayney (miss you!) and anyone else I have missed (I always feel bad at the thought of missing someone - have a terrible feeling that i have though!)... Love you all and haven't intended to leave anyone out!

AFM AF is giving me a few little cramps which are not fun but at least she is super light - still annoyed at the whole ttc on hold thing - thaanks to my thyroid issue my cycle was only 18 days with the shortest luteal phase on record!

I really want to get the front page back up to date but am totally confused about who is up to where! I am thinking if people can PM me where they are up to that way I can update it without having to scroll back through pages and pages of posts to find out!

xx

 

[Melainey]

Thank you Angel Even the thought of a hug from my mum has just put me in tears I am such a sook lately haha! xx

That is such a cute story Some people are just so adorable

 

[Pauls_angel]

Oh Laineypop! I didn't mean to make you cry!

Number2 - that woman was clearly not a friend!

 

[Melainey]

It's all good A cry every now and again keeps me a little sane hahaha

 

[Pammy31]

I think you are soo right Melainey..

 

[ginny83]

Angel - Max doesn't really have a clue what's going on, but I haven't been trying to teach him either. I'm 10 weeks tomorrow - I just really want time to hurry up so I can get past 12 weeks and relax a little. Also, I'm glad you're getting your thyroid sorted out before starting to ttc - could you imagine trying to figure out what was going on at the moment if you had been trying this month - so stressful and confusing! I'm sorry that means it'll take a bit extra time in the end, but at least then you know you'll be at your healthiest and have the best chance of having a healthy pregnancy. How's living with the in-laws going?

Newbie - I have also read about people getting a secondary estrogen surge around 3DPO, I'll try and find the link to it

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Angel - that is a classic story!

Melainey - I hope you're feeling ok honey, I know what you mean about everyting combining and getting on top of you! xxxx

2 mums, I thought you would drop the c-bomb in there to test the theory if nobody had already lol

On the 'insensitivity' front, I think it sucks that they all flit around the office saying that and are insensitive & rude, but at the same time, I can't blame them....We're all here trying so hard to fall pregnant. when we do, of course it's going to be the most exciting thing going on. Plus, when you don't knwo people well, you're both pregnant, or someone has a child, it's always a talking point. After having been through it myself, I will be very aware of it when talking to other people, knowing that people might have trouble, and be sensitive & gauge their reactions on things I say, but I would be lying if I said that after a year, I will feel like I bloody earned the right to talk about my baby.... I knwo that probably puts me in the bitch category, but I totally get why people talk about it all the time, it's what we all want so badly, if would surely be taking it for granted if we didn't talk about it when it finally happens...

In saying all of that, I still am in the same boat as everyone else, it really sucks hearing about it constantly when it's not happening to you, especially when the preggy ones have no tact.

We will all get there, so try to keep your chins up!! (this advice is kind of me telling myself aswell....)

I'm off to my parents for dinner tonight cos DH is away, so I won't be able to jump on here... sorry!

have a great night everyone!!! xxxx

p.ps ginny - 10 weeks - WOO HOO!!!!!!

 

[Lisasmith]

I'm kinda laughing at one of my best friends.. She temps both ways at once.. To her horror this morning she realised she had her vaginal thermometer in her mouth!

 

[Melainey]

Thanks Squigleybum Loneliness is a killer haha I don't think i will get pregnant until I go home and get that out of my system Maybe that is why I haven't been able to get duffy! Have fun at your mums tonight xx

hahahahahahahahahah Smithy That is too funny hahahahahahahaha!! Ewwwwwwwwww

EDIT: YAY Ginny - 10 weeks is great x

 

[Pammy31]

ha ha ha ha ha... laughing at my desk...(spit)

 

[kiwipauagirl]

Girls my temps are stupid crazy this morning! Jumped .4 of a degree. Now the hotel room we are in is roasting. I have just had a cold glass of water to try and cool down. I am not up for these temPs anymore lol. Do u think I should wait and test again or leave it at is stands crazy high for today? Also what is evap? I see girls mention it when doing a preg test but dont know what it means.
Hope Ur allhaving a great day! We arrived here in Poland. And it is so wonderful to see my friend. We have been mates fir 20yrs. Live her to bits. I am surprised we got any sleep last night for all the chatting. I have quickly read all the latest post but won't comment yet. She is stirring and my find it strange me on my phone at this hour lol. Enjoy the rest of the day girls

 

[Lisasmith]

Girls my temps are stupid crazy this morning! Jumped .4 of a degree. Now the hotel room we are in is roasting. I have just had a cold glass of water to try and cool down. I am not up for these temPs anymore lol. Do u think I should wait and test again or leave it at is stands crazy high for today? Also what is evap? I see girls mention it when doing a preg test but dont know what it means.
Hope Ur allhaving a great day! We arrived here in Poland. And it is so wonderful to see my friend. We have been mates fir 20yrs. Live her to bits. I am surprised we got any sleep last night for all the chatting. I have quickly read all the latest post but won't comment yet. She is stirring and my find it strange me on my phone at this hour lol. Enjoy the rest of the day girls

Your chart looks amazing! I would test again if youre up for it. EVAP is when the test line gets a positive looking line on it days or hours after the test has been done. It's usually colorless or brown like mine was

 

[Newbie32]

Just going to get pricked, back l8r lovelies xxx