My mother in law has a massive drinking problem, we have tried to help but she won't admit the problem let alone attempt to do something about it. She never has any food in the house, only alcohol and is drunk everytime we see her.
She also has different men sleep over all the time. She wants our three year old boy to sleep over. I am very casual and have never had a problem having family members look after him since he was a baby, however the thought of him being in her house with possibly a strange man and her passed out in the bedroom makes me feel sick.
I spoke to my husband about this and he hadn't even thought about how bad the situation is, he would have just let him stay there. Luckily he agrees with me but the problem is we dont know how to go about saying no to her without causing a big fight or falling out. "We dont trust you with our child" is pretty harsh.
Has anyone had to tell a family member they can't babysit before? How did you do it? I'm not being crazy right?
She also has different men sleep over all the time. She wants our three year old boy to sleep over. I am very casual and have never had a problem having family members look after him since he was a baby, however the thought of him being in her house with possibly a strange man and her passed out in the bedroom makes me feel sick.
I spoke to my husband about this and he hadn't even thought about how bad the situation is, he would have just let him stay there. Luckily he agrees with me but the problem is we dont know how to go about saying no to her without causing a big fight or falling out. "We dont trust you with our child" is pretty harsh.
Has anyone had to tell a family member they can't babysit before? How did you do it? I'm not being crazy right?