babies with teens

[Clair75]

Hi all am 36 and have 3 children 10,11,13 and all I can think of right now is number 4.... Me and hubby have talked about it and he said if it happend then ok. But not sure what ok means... On top of that we have a 3 bed house and can't move so one would have to share or if had a boy could end up with 3in a room..? I no not good but my little girl has said don't mind sharing but she don't really know what that would mean. Am not sure if we are to old hubby is 42. We don't have kids together and I have always wonted our child. We live with my 3 and he has 2 kids 16,18 soooo need help am I mad is it fair on the kids to ask them to share with a baby...

 

[tigerlily740]

Your not mad it's natural to want a baby with your hubby... I am 36 and have a 6 month old (and another on the way) with my hubby, even though I already have 2 children 15 & 10 who live with us and hubby has three grown up children. Having our own baby brought our two families together, my two kids adore their baby brother (although they don't share room with him) if you can work around the bedroom situation and it's what you and your hubby want then go for it. I should add that it was more me than hubby that wanted another baby he was a bit like your hubby if it happens then ok! Now baby is here he is fantastic father and by his own admissions much more hands on now than with his other 3, think that's benefit of being older dad (he's 52)

 

[suzimc]

I've got two boys 15 and 13 and a girl of 11, we've got a 3 bedroom house and I intend to keep our latest little boy, due end of March, in with me until he's a year then he can go in with his sister for a bit. My oldest reckons he's going out to Australia for a year when he's 18 to stay with his dad so we'll rethink it all again then! Babies happen and there's always another drawer you can open!!

 

[DeeM73]

I'm pregnant with my 3rd,have a daughter at 13 and a son at 12.I did worry a little about sharing etc but we'll manage just fine you just do x

 

[future_numan]

I have four daughters aged 22, 21, 19 & 2 in a four bedroom house.. and now we are expecting a boy.. space can always be worked out !

 

[kirst76]

I agree with what the others have said.
I'm pregnant with our 4th girl and have a 14, 6 and 2 year old.
We too have a 3 bedroom house and have had a huge shuffle this past weekend....me and hubby moved into the 6 and 2 year olds room to give them the space so they can share with the new little girl when she arrives.
I dont think it matters sharing.
Good luck with your decision.