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Okay so I posted a poll here before explaining I had a choice of two names, these were Jacob or Zachary. These are the ONLY 2 names OH and I like, we have been through pretty much every other possibility on planet earth and beyond even!
Now we had a dilemma with each name..
Zachary's Dilemma: Long name, although can be shortened to Zach, we couldn't find a happy medium that sound cute and catchy and although we both like the name we don't LOVE it (although I am sure this would change if we used it!)
Jacob's Dilemma: My ''best friend'' has a son called Jake, who is my godson, (by birth certificate as Jake not Jacob), and although I don't really see her anymore, hence the ''best friend'', we felt it would be a bit weird because she calls him Jake/Jakey, and this is what I would imagine we would call our LO as nicknames etc..
So anyway we picked Zachary, but then changed our minds and we decided to settle for Jacob because its definitely the one we prefer of the 2, and we decided it wouldn't really matter about the ''best friend'' because I very rarely talk to her anymore and see her probably once every few months..
HOWEVER....As of the other day, I started talking to her again, I went to see my god daughter for the first time in months (she has a son and a daughter but doesn't have permanent residency of the son Jake), and I decided I really need to start seeing them more because I love my godchildren to bits and I do miss my best friend...
So I ran the name past her and said how would she feel? And she replied with
''I would be a bit annoyed if it was Jake but Jacob is ok''
And I replied with, but obviously you realise I probably will shorten it too Jake and won't always say Jacob?
And got no reply..
So now I don't want to use Jacob but I am so settled on Jacob
What would you do?
Now we had a dilemma with each name..
Zachary's Dilemma: Long name, although can be shortened to Zach, we couldn't find a happy medium that sound cute and catchy and although we both like the name we don't LOVE it (although I am sure this would change if we used it!)
Jacob's Dilemma: My ''best friend'' has a son called Jake, who is my godson, (by birth certificate as Jake not Jacob), and although I don't really see her anymore, hence the ''best friend'', we felt it would be a bit weird because she calls him Jake/Jakey, and this is what I would imagine we would call our LO as nicknames etc..
So anyway we picked Zachary, but then changed our minds and we decided to settle for Jacob because its definitely the one we prefer of the 2, and we decided it wouldn't really matter about the ''best friend'' because I very rarely talk to her anymore and see her probably once every few months..
HOWEVER....As of the other day, I started talking to her again, I went to see my god daughter for the first time in months (she has a son and a daughter but doesn't have permanent residency of the son Jake), and I decided I really need to start seeing them more because I love my godchildren to bits and I do miss my best friend...
So I ran the name past her and said how would she feel? And she replied with
''I would be a bit annoyed if it was Jake but Jacob is ok''
And I replied with, but obviously you realise I probably will shorten it too Jake and won't always say Jacob?
And got no reply..
So now I don't want to use Jacob but I am so settled on Jacob
What would you do?