VictoriaElaur
Natural Mumma Of 1
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I dont know if this is the correct place for this but:
My husband and I are considering having a baby. We feel ready (although were terrified).
Our dilemma is as follows:
We both work full time but I would like to give up my job and go back to university full time, which for the course I want to do equates to about 2 days at Uni.
If I start my course in September it means we will have to wait 3 years till we can get pregnant all in all it may be another 4 years till we have a baby. (I will be 29 and my Husband will be 34)
Here are our options:
Option 1: Have a baby now, get maternity pay from work for 6 months and start Uni next year when baby is 6 months old.
Option 2: Go to uni now wait 4 years (3 year course + 9 months for baby ect) to have a baby when Im self employed.
Option 3: Have a Baby now give up work and be a full time mum/wife.
I know that no one can give us the answer but some advice from women-in-the-know would really help!
xXx
My husband and I are considering having a baby. We feel ready (although were terrified).
Our dilemma is as follows:
We both work full time but I would like to give up my job and go back to university full time, which for the course I want to do equates to about 2 days at Uni.
If I start my course in September it means we will have to wait 3 years till we can get pregnant all in all it may be another 4 years till we have a baby. (I will be 29 and my Husband will be 34)
Here are our options:
Option 1: Have a baby now, get maternity pay from work for 6 months and start Uni next year when baby is 6 months old.
Option 2: Go to uni now wait 4 years (3 year course + 9 months for baby ect) to have a baby when Im self employed.
Option 3: Have a Baby now give up work and be a full time mum/wife.
I know that no one can give us the answer but some advice from women-in-the-know would really help!
xXx