baby shower rant !

[Marlarky]

I feel your pain, because my fiancee's family doesnt speak any english, they only speak spanish and my whole family only speaks english. And since my mom and my dad's family don't get along at all, I am going to have babyshowers: 1) w/ my mom and her friends, 2) w/ my dad's family and 3) w/ my fiancee's family. Yes, and then for parties, I will end up having a party for the baby with my fiancee's family, and then a sererate one with just like my mom my fiancee' and the baby. Baptism will be bilingual and confusing to both sides, and then when baby goes to MIL's, he will speak spanish and when he goes to my mom's house, the baby will only speak english. And my MIL is controlling too, and she will think that the baby is hers and will tell me how to raise my own damn baby, and then when I tell my fiancee' that this is OUR baby, not hers, he will be like "Oh, well she has a point, blah la la la la." Sorry for my own personal rant, but really girl, I feel you. I know how this is to want everything to just be together.