am currently 29weeks pregnant and havent spoken since end of september i wrote a letter to his parents last week about being happy for them all to say the baba when born but they want nothing to do with my son do i carry on trying or just leave it be?
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expecting09
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You've tried, I would leave it as that 
LoraLoo
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I think i'd maybe send a photo when baby is born with a note saying that they would be welcome to come and see him/her, and then don't bother ever again! Its hurtful hun, I know, my in laws have nothing to do with my kids (((((((())))))) xxx
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leave it! you've already gone out your way.
it will feel much worst if they still throw it back in your face after he is born. let them come to you
it will feel much worst if they still throw it back in your face after he is born. let them come to you
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I just don't understand people like that! I wouldn't even bother, you've given them a chance and they're missing out - gutted for them!
Yup. Leave it at that. My son's grandparents just came crawling back to me after a year of being missing. Now my son's father is still missing, but the GRANDPARENTS would like to see him again. And I still showed respect, and said sure. It took a loooooooooong time for me to forgive them. But you can't get though the pain if you don't forgive. Now there are still rules of course, they can't have him at their house anytime soon. but I figured I'd be nice enough to let them see him.
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I would possibly do as mentioned above and send a photo?!
At least at the end of the day when you little boy is old enough to understand you can say you really tried but it was their choice!! xx
At least at the end of the day when you little boy is old enough to understand you can say you really tried but it was their choice!! xx
littlekitten8
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I would leave it hun. You have tried and that is all you can do. It is up to them if they contact you. Perhaps its still a bit awkward and raw for them?
Yeh i think there problem is they still wrap there son in cotton wool but being pregnant i have grown alot in my eyes i was like well its there loss but the point of the letter was for my unborn son just because i didnt have a great relationship with the grandparents i wasnt going to take that out on him i just feel there taking it out on my son cause we never got on that well.
I feel alot better and stronger about the whole situation now your a great bunch of people
thank you so much
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I feel alot better and stronger about the whole situation now your a great bunch of people
thank you so much xx
i know how u feel it took me a while but i sat down and wrote the letter as a branch for them it made me feel alot better as i was doing right by my son maybe give it ago it definately helped with alot of the stress hun
