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[Chilli]

Just to let you know that my last pg failed (3rd time now) so I'm back in here and starting again with the support of you girls. FSH levels to be tested again and just feeling a bit like my eggs are too knackered to work anymore I will be pg at 40th birthday at best

 

[readytogiveup]

Just to let you know that my last pg failed (3rd time now) so I'm back in here and starting again with the support of you girls. FSH levels to be tested again and just feeling a bit like my eggs are too knackered to work anymore I will be pg at 40th birthday at best

hey chilli chin up.. your eggs are most def not knackered they are still as good as they were in your teens just have less now, sorry for your loss hopefully you will succeed soon best wishes x

 

[Omi]

So sorry you're back hun. However, we're all doing the same work here, hey whenever i feel crap i look for people who are older than me and having babies. Currently i have Mariah Carey in mind as she will be nearly 42 when she has her first baby. I hope to beat her (as looking at defo 41 now as 40 already, gulp, lol)

Chin up, babe and all the best

Omi xxx

 

[40s Gal]

Sorry Chilli, here's hoping for a healthy sticky dot...by next month. Your perfect day is just around the corner. Hugs!

I think I'm trying one more month then not worry about it for a while. The holiday season is so busy, I don't want to think about bebe's then.
I've started a walking regime again, need to lose some weight, just in time for Christmas.

 

[Lucky4]

So sorry you have had 3rd mc, was hoping it would have worked out fir you. I had 3rd mc September and also think my eggs are too old(fsh 9.9 in may and don't want to recheck it!)
Just have to stay positive and let nature do it's own thing, I think it just takes longer to wait for a lucky egg.I am 13 dpo, bfn at 11dpo so will wait and test if no af Friday. Good luck for the next bfp

 

[Chilli]

Thanks girls for all your support. Lucky my FSH was 12 back in May, am having it rechecked, but know it's not gonna be good. I think I 've just prepared myself for lots of heartache before I get the ultimate prize - can't even contemplate not getting there!

40s Gal - that's probably just when you'll get lucky - when you're not trying!
Lucky 4 - lets hope we're both getting our lucky egg soon!

 

[DressageDiva]

Aw hugs honey xxx try to stay positive, we will all be thinking of you xx

 

[FutureMommie]

So sorry that you are back, I hope your stay is short, we are here to support you!

 

[Rowan75]

so sorry hon - hugs x

 

[Chilli]

Thanks Rowan - sorry to you too - it's so hard, hope you're feeling better soon

 

[NanCat]

I am so sorry to hear that, Chilli...I'm sending positive thoughts your way. Hope it gets easier every day.

 

[mandy1971]

Hi honey,
so sorry to hear that I had my third m/c yest also..
going to try and get referral for recurrent m/c unit, and try and find out if there is something causing this that can be easily rectified(hoping and praying )
xxxx

 

[Chilli]

Sorry to hear that Mandy -each one leaves another hole in your heart I know
Hope you get tested soon and they can help you

 

[LiSa2010]

so sorry for your losses. i recently had my 3rd mc as well and stopped spotting yesterday. cant wait to start TTC again.

@mandy: Ive had my 3 mcs at less than 7 weeks myself and ive read online that it could be due to low lutheal phase, Low Progesterone or the Uterine Lining.

there is a thread in here about Vitamin B6, B50, B100 (Vitamin B6 - Lengthen luteal phase or increase progesterone). its suppose to regulate your cycles and lengthen your lutheal phase. the ladies on the thread swear by it so im going to give it a try.

its a pretty long thread but a fantastic read. ive learned so much just by reading the posts.

good luck and lots of baby

 

[mandy1971]

Hi lisa
firstly sorry fir your losses..
I had my 21 day progesterone checked about a fortnight ago (at my request, I must add...)and they said it was fine, however I was pregnant at the time so not sure if it would be accurate then as a base line. I will check out that thread though..thanks.
Going to ask to be referred to a recurrent miscarriage specialist on Tuesday when I have the 6 week scan(formality, eh?)when at epu clinic..
So keep you posted and likewise with yourself honey.. Xxxx

 

[Chilli]

I'm so fed up - I'm still bleeding 3 weeks after ERPC. It's sporadic, stopping and starting and only really spotting but I just want to get on and back to normal - tick tock! Still at last getting BFNs

 

[Enzo]

Sorry to hear your news Chilli, big hugs, I am 42 and had a miscarriage seven weeks ago. Stay positive, we have less good quality eggs in our late thirties early forties , but there are still some there! Also your FSH levels may vary from cycle to cycle, have you seen a reproductive endocrinologist, have your Progesterone levels been checked? Mariah had some help with her progesterone and conceived! wishing you so much luck and understand fully how you feel x

 

[ciarhwyfar]

Chili, Mandy, it is an inspiration to see you still so positive after three mc. Yes, that is positive. You are still here supporting others, ready to get started again, and being here with all of us.

Thank you for letting us all know that we shouldn't let a mc or af gets us down too much. There is always next month.

 

[Chilli]

What a lovely thing to say Ciar - good luck on your journey

 

[mandy1971]

ah thanks Ciar.
PMA, got to be in it to win it.I am just relieved that my miscarriages have ended atthe earliest stage of pregnancy, I just can only imagine how some of the other girls must feel when they've miscarried so late on... xxxxx