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[Cariad_bach]

I am so very very sorry hun xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[maria26pc]

Hang in there hun......I had two in a row last year....Never lose hope.

 

[JJF]

I've been away for a few days and just saw your post, I'm so so so sorry honey. I know how awful it feels, having now lost 3, and I ask myself those same questions, why me, why so many, why do some stick, some don't. I still have a hard time with my 3rd MC, it really hit me hard. Hoping my next pregnancy is a sticky one cause Emotionally i can't go thru another one I"m so sorry about your mom, sounds EXACTLY like what my mom would say to me so I feel your pain there too!

Lots of Hugs!

 

[doc123]

honey i'm so sorry- people just seem to think once you've mc'd the have license to say the first thing that comes into their head no matter how hurtful!! I had a friend say i didnt deserve twins after my last mc (3rd- 4 babies lost now)....she was jealous i was pregnant with twins and never tried to hide it.

You just need to focus on you and your oh and try to work through everything you are feeling- cos its all valid you know!!! You need to feel how you feel about it- and never feel guilty for that....society has a lot to answer for- us girls end up beating ourselves up about everything and there is a huge level of guilt associated with miscarriage that somehow its our fault!!! But it isnt- its never about something you did or didnt do...

Stay strong and try to focus on what your needs are until you are feeling stronger and feeling better and give yourself space and time to do what you need to do....so sorry for you loss...

And you will survive no matter how you feel now.. we are ttc again after mc 5 weeks ago.. and i'm still smiling and surviving it....you will too...