Back on here again ... Another miscarriage

[TOHARD2TRY]

So I’m back on the ttc board again, won’t be rushing back into it though for at least a few years, sadly miscarriage again on the 9th at 5+6 , Blaming my self as had really bad sickness with my pregnancy and could hardly keep anything down, not even water! I honestly want another but I can’t deal with the sickness so my head is playing do I or don’t I ! My hubby really wants another .. So feel free to give me any advice to prevent having morning sickness lol.

Ahhhhhhhh I just want to cry too

 

[Charm23]

Hi there, very sorry to hear about you mc. I hope you start to feel a bit better in time. Look after yourself x

 

[TOHARD2TRY]

Thank you, I do too x

 

[HollyDaisy]

So sorry for your loss! I am praying for you! Please take care of yourself and get lots of rest!

 

[donnarobinson]

Sorry for your loss I get horrendous sickness and is one of the things that makes me unsure of having another it won’t be your fault tho hun. I lost a stone and a half in my second pregnancy due to not being able to eat and I had a healthy pregnancy don’t blame urself x x

 

[BunnyN]

Have a read about HG (hyperemesis gravidarum). There is some great support online and doctors are beginning to be more helpful too. You might consider talking to a doctor before you get pregnant and make a plan of action for meds etc. Treating promptly can help.

Not every pregnancy is the same. I had 'mild' HG with my first. Rotten but more standard morning sickness in my next two pregnancies (sadly one ended in a MC at 11 weeks). My last was the worst. I was in bed for 6 weeks. I threw up everything, I threw up when I moved my head. I threw up from the smell of food when my husband opened the fridge 2 rooms away. I ended up on a drip (which was a lifesaver). I lost almost 3 stone. I didn't shower for over a week at a time. I couldn't do anything in the house or for our two toddlers. Thankfully the baby was just fine. I would be happy to go through labour any day but the sickness was 100x worse.

Meds didn't really help me feel better but helped me keep water down a little better. We tried acupuncture out of desperation and it seemed to have a really good effect but I started to improve soon after so it was hard to say how much was the acupuncture and how much I would have improved anyway. Mostly it was a case of getting plenty of help and riding it out.

So sorry for your loss. Hugs.