bad feelings!! bad mum??

[DizzyDotty]

I'm 9 weeks 2day and oh god is it normal to feel so depressed?? Mayb it is ok for the douts to creep in when your facing this alone but I can't shake the feeling that I'm gunna loose my baby or I'm gunna be a bad mum .. Am I alone surely I should be so happy rite now mayb I'm a bad mum already! Babys father has abandoned us and told me I will be a bad mum, I've never known such nasty word come from any1 else but him! I don't really know why I'm on here guess I needed to get that out without som1 telling me it will all be ok when it doesn't seem like it will.

 

[prettyflower7]

It is normal to feel that way...especially at this stage of ur pregnancy. Your hormones will be all over the place as it is and if you havent had support from the FOB then that will just add to that. Its natural to worry about how you will handle being a mum but I assure you that it is something you will become a natural at . I was up and down and all over the place when I was pregnant with my daughter. Do you have people around you that are supporting you through this?

 

[stephanie20]

I'm 14 weeks and my baby's dad has abandoned us and also said that i'm gonna be a bad mum and that hes gonna take me to court for full custody. At the end of the day you're not the one thats abandoned the baby, he is, so if anyones a bad parent its him I felt like that earlier on in my pregnancy but at the end of the day its his loss, not yours. You will feel better, I didn't think I would but trust me, you will

 

[Blondie91]

^WSS. Sometimes in life there aren't second chances, it's now or never. And he's obviously shown his true colors. You're the one who is going to have to be strong, but one day, it'll all be worth it. And just the fact that this is something you are worrying about, shows that you definitely won't be a "bad mum."