ahh buffycat i know exactly where you are coming from i had the same thing this month for my DH. We dtd for a couple of days and then the next day i had a ton of EWCM (sorry tmi) and he had lost interest by then, too tired and not in the mood .arhh!!! I was too really doubtful, however i am CD22 and have an achy feeling down there and am really hungry today, so now i'm starting to wonder whether the early beddings were good enough.
What i am trying to say is don't give up hope, those little spermies can live for a few days and i have decided that if i'm not lucky this month that i'm not telling DH next month because it does seem that men can't handle the pressure. They just can't perform when they are needed.
So rant away, I stormed out and drove like a loony round the country lanes until i calmed down, sometimes you just need a good rant and that's what were all here for.
xx