I've been temping 6 months and it's been pretty darn accurate for me. Heck, my mom temped for each of her kids and had no problem having 5 of us. My aunt temped for both her boys (in conjunction with Clomid.)
Temping might not tell you when you're going to ovulate, but it definitely will tell you if you have. I always get an O dip, so for me it helps me know when I am O'ing as well. That with everything else I chart really does help me to know what's going on, whether any doctor believes me or not.
I'm really not a big fan of doctors and their opinions a lot of the time.
I agree so much. There are some AMAZING doctors out there, but some are right, excuse my language, dumbasses! I don't know how some get their masters..
I mean I'm just average, but seriously.. some doctors don't know what they are talking about sometimes.
Maybe it's just something about doctors and the whole reproduction thing. I've met tons of smart, well read, well educated folks in the medical field, but I swear- every time the conversation turns towards reproductive issues, even the most intelligent ones start babbling nonsense half the time.
OH and I have decided to go the midwife/homebirth route when we get back around to baby making again. (We're on a bit of a break as the wedding approaches.) As incompetent as some of the OB/GYN's I've met lately are, it seems the more constructive (and less ridiculously invasive) route.
Honestly, I'm betting that half the time, docs say that BBT doesn't work just so they can get us ladies to come in and submit to some crazy in office tests to figure out (for an arm and a leg) what a thermometer could have told us for free.