thestaircase
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Hello, sorry if anything in this post is TMI,
Sexually I only have one guy that is my husband, so excuse me for my ignorance in sex. Im newlywed so Im still new into this whole BCP thing. I'm only 3 months into marriage.
May I ask. Is anyone here who are on BCP or are expert on Birth control pills. I have a few questions. What are the chances of get pregnant while on BCP? Not likely right? Because BCP is 99% effective if taking correctly right? And did anyone get breakthrough bleeding like I get?
I took all my pills on time, exactly on the same time everyday. I never miss one pills, so I know Im 99% safe. I am also NOT on any Antibiotics so it not messing up my BCP
Last month I got my period came late. And 'breakthrough bleeding', heard this is normal for those who new to BCP as their body still adjust to the BCP
And this month, it is the 20th of April and I still have not get my period yet. That means I am 3 WEEKS late. I am way passed my placebo pills. Now this is kindda scary because I never been this late before in my life. Despite being 3 weeks late, I still take my pills on time everyday.
Im 30 and husband is 29, and we married. My husband really really want a baby, he have baby fever. If unplanned pregnancy happen, then we will keep baby at all cost. We both against abortion, we both love babies.
But at my age 30, Im not young anymore. Just three months into marriage and get pregnant, it not easy right? People tell me that the older you are the harder to get pregnant.
I told my husband that I cant be pregnant because I took the BCP everyday exactly on time. When you taking BCP correctly, you not ovulating an egg, so the chances of get pregnant is slim. And we only 3rd month into our marriage so my body still trying to adjust to the BCP; it probably just late again.
My husband want a baby so he happy that Im late, lol
He be THRILLED if Im pregnant. Yestedady when he left to work, he already kiss my stomach. He told me take the pregnancy test and when Im pregnant, he will kiss my stomach EVERYDAY for 9 Months until the baby born.
But he making me feel kindda awkward. Kissing my stomach for 9 Months everyday until the baby born, is too much affections. He is a doting husband alright, but he going to suffocate his wife and the baby.
We married for 3 months already and my husband still kiss my butt cheek. Is this normal?
I have an abusive mother in my childhood, and I grow up in a very cold family so I'm not used to affections at all.
I can already tell that he going to be the Dad that will spoil his kids rotten!!
I was raise in a strict traditional Chinese family, so I know I will be very strict to my kids. And him, he the Dad that will spoil his kids. The kids will always run to daddy daddy for everything because daddy spoil them rotten. Arg!!
Before we TTC, I think we need another talk on this. We have the talk before, he said it himself that he will spoil his children.
I know he patience and he is a doting husband. He let me have things my way so I can be happy. But now to the kids issue, I dont think he going to let me have it all my way. But we probably have cultural clashes on the ways we going to raise our children.
We been through alot of hardship to be together. From my abusive Chinese mother disapproval of him because of his skin color, to our huge cultural difference.
I do want a baby, but not now. I want more of us two people time alone together as a couple before we have a baby. I hope I'm not being too selfish. Am I too selfish?
He been working 2 jobs, 12-14 hours everyday so we can have enough money to buy a house as fast as we can. We plan to TTC in 2016 when we have our own house. I want to spend more time with him as two of us before bring in a baby. Is that too selfish of me?
Sorry for my bad English grammars, English is my third language.
Sexually I only have one guy that is my husband, so excuse me for my ignorance in sex. Im newlywed so Im still new into this whole BCP thing. I'm only 3 months into marriage.
May I ask. Is anyone here who are on BCP or are expert on Birth control pills. I have a few questions. What are the chances of get pregnant while on BCP? Not likely right? Because BCP is 99% effective if taking correctly right? And did anyone get breakthrough bleeding like I get?
I took all my pills on time, exactly on the same time everyday. I never miss one pills, so I know Im 99% safe. I am also NOT on any Antibiotics so it not messing up my BCP
Last month I got my period came late. And 'breakthrough bleeding', heard this is normal for those who new to BCP as their body still adjust to the BCP
And this month, it is the 20th of April and I still have not get my period yet. That means I am 3 WEEKS late. I am way passed my placebo pills. Now this is kindda scary because I never been this late before in my life. Despite being 3 weeks late, I still take my pills on time everyday.
Im 30 and husband is 29, and we married. My husband really really want a baby, he have baby fever. If unplanned pregnancy happen, then we will keep baby at all cost. We both against abortion, we both love babies.
But at my age 30, Im not young anymore. Just three months into marriage and get pregnant, it not easy right? People tell me that the older you are the harder to get pregnant.
I told my husband that I cant be pregnant because I took the BCP everyday exactly on time. When you taking BCP correctly, you not ovulating an egg, so the chances of get pregnant is slim. And we only 3rd month into our marriage so my body still trying to adjust to the BCP; it probably just late again.
My husband want a baby so he happy that Im late, lol
He be THRILLED if Im pregnant. Yestedady when he left to work, he already kiss my stomach. He told me take the pregnancy test and when Im pregnant, he will kiss my stomach EVERYDAY for 9 Months until the baby born.
But he making me feel kindda awkward. Kissing my stomach for 9 Months everyday until the baby born, is too much affections. He is a doting husband alright, but he going to suffocate his wife and the baby.
We married for 3 months already and my husband still kiss my butt cheek. Is this normal?
I have an abusive mother in my childhood, and I grow up in a very cold family so I'm not used to affections at all.
I can already tell that he going to be the Dad that will spoil his kids rotten!!
I was raise in a strict traditional Chinese family, so I know I will be very strict to my kids. And him, he the Dad that will spoil his kids. The kids will always run to daddy daddy for everything because daddy spoil them rotten. Arg!!
Before we TTC, I think we need another talk on this. We have the talk before, he said it himself that he will spoil his children.
I know he patience and he is a doting husband. He let me have things my way so I can be happy. But now to the kids issue, I dont think he going to let me have it all my way. But we probably have cultural clashes on the ways we going to raise our children.
We been through alot of hardship to be together. From my abusive Chinese mother disapproval of him because of his skin color, to our huge cultural difference.
I do want a baby, but not now. I want more of us two people time alone together as a couple before we have a baby. I hope I'm not being too selfish. Am I too selfish?
He been working 2 jobs, 12-14 hours everyday so we can have enough money to buy a house as fast as we can. We plan to TTC in 2016 when we have our own house. I want to spend more time with him as two of us before bring in a baby. Is that too selfish of me?
Sorry for my bad English grammars, English is my third language.