and thankfully i dont have depression(or pnd) the doc says ive had 2 much 2 soon after the birth(stresswise)he says if i dont take it easy then i will end up depressed, he told me not to dwell on things and if i feel angry 2 take a step back and assess how my reaction cud make me feel later on, he gave me some tips on anger management(to help with the stress) he says im being sensible with me and darrens situation, rather than just blow him out completely that im gradually doing, he says this way well more than likely get back 2gether!!! i went into the docs a nervouse wreck and came out with a big grin on my face and no prescription!!! and.... CALLUM LAUGHED FOR ME!!!! im on top of the world today high on life!!!!