Ill start with the fussy eating. About 2 years ago, seth suddenly stopped eating any fruit or veg or trying new foods. Ive tried literally everything to get something decent in him... pureeing & hiding in pasta sauces, soups, bribery, letting him help me cook, reward charts. Nothing works. We're at the point where now all he will eat is banana, rice, plain pasta, cereal, and sandwiches (whice he pulls the filling out of). Of course, he eats crisps, cake etc no problem. He has tried other things in the last 6 months but he just gags and throws up, then refuses to touch them again. He complains of a sore tummy which i guess is constipation, he only goes once every couple of days, and he is so skinny Everyone kept telling us it was a phase, he's asserting his independance but its almost 2 years now. Then, hiis behaviour. Im worried about him, hes always had a lot of energy, but he just has no concentration whatsoever, he flits between this & that, he runs everywhere, climbs on anything he can find. When we do something together he will sit for literally about 3 mins and then gets bored and wants to do something else. He has selective hearing, no discipline seems to work, again we have tried everything... limiting tv, reward charts, earlier bedtime, treating him. Nothing works. When you tell him off or put him pon the naughty step he just either laughs or lashes out hitting and kicking. His sleep through the night is terrible which really doesnt help... last night for example he went to bed at 730, woke up at 3, was awake til 6, fell asleep til 8 then up again. He has quite nasty nightmares too and gets pains in his legs. Im really worried about him. I just have no idea what to do anymore.