Simon'sMum
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Ok, I apologize right away for this. I'm already embarrased but simply have to ask for input...
My baby is 6 months old and every month that goes by reminds me that we still haven't resumed our "bedroom activities". I just think it may be a little abnormal...
When Simon was first born, we both felt great, weren't yet tired and were looking forward to the healing to be complete. At my postnatal checkup, the doctor said the stitches weren't done perfectly which caused some area to be more painful and reddish. So we put things off 'til that was better.
Well, our life is now extremely busy with big projects so we rarely even get to go to sleep at the same time. We get 2-3 hours together maximum, during which the baby needs our attention of course! So where the heck are we headed??? It seems like we put things off too long and now don't know where to begin. Are we all alone like this? Should I fear the pain that much? Any advice for us?
Thanx for your help! We're feeling bad about this but don't know how to be intimate again...
My baby is 6 months old and every month that goes by reminds me that we still haven't resumed our "bedroom activities". I just think it may be a little abnormal...
When Simon was first born, we both felt great, weren't yet tired and were looking forward to the healing to be complete. At my postnatal checkup, the doctor said the stitches weren't done perfectly which caused some area to be more painful and reddish. So we put things off 'til that was better.
Well, our life is now extremely busy with big projects so we rarely even get to go to sleep at the same time. We get 2-3 hours together maximum, during which the baby needs our attention of course! So where the heck are we headed??? It seems like we put things off too long and now don't know where to begin. Are we all alone like this? Should I fear the pain that much? Any advice for us?
Thanx for your help! We're feeling bad about this but don't know how to be intimate again...