BFN at 11dpo - help!

[Clucky1]

I have been TTC for a year now and am starting to feel really desperate - this is my first ever time posting in a forum although I am always frantically reading them!

I was told I had Polycystic ovaries and then by another Dr that I was not typical. I tested low progestorone so I was on clomid for 3 months but that didn't work. The fertility clinic are 'baffled' by my husbands sperm cant, not many but fast....?

I rarely get a positive OPK but this month I did on day 20 (despite last cycle being 25 days only) I was so excited and we did 'it' that day and 2 days after. I am now 11dpo and did a first response early result test and had to hold back tears when it showed a very clear BFN.

Was it too early?

Has anyone else been in this situation? I thought I had symptoms but then again I am always convincing myself of this!

I am mother to a nearly 3 year old and that took us over a year but I had very regular cycles then.

I feel selfish longing so badly when I know lots of people dont have any yet but I am getting a bit desperate! I just wanted a bit of support from people in the same boat really...

 

[angel11]

Hey Clucky1. I don't have any children yet but i know the feeling of having symptoms, then wondering whether you actually really have them or just desperately want to have them. A BFN at 11dpo does not mean that you are not pregnant. Whilst some women do get a BFP as early as 8dpo, some women get them only much later. Wait a few more days and if your period doesn't start, test again.

Are you taking any supplements to assist with trying to conceive? Could you maybe go to another doctor for a second opinion?

Just wishing you lots of luck and FX'ed that you get a BFP soon sweetie.

 

[mammag]

I have two children and am desperate for a third, trust me, trying for #1 or #10 is just as hard and upsetting when you are having no success, and all the ladies here understand that quite well. 11 dpo is early, it's very possible that a pregnancy may not have even implanted yet, much less created enough Hcg for a pregnancy test to pick up on! Don't lose hope yet Good Luck!

 

[swanxxsong]

a friend of mine on here got negatives in the early time and I don't think she got her BFP until around 17 DPO. so you're definitely not out of the running - not until arrives!

best wishes! xo

 

[Clucky1]

for all your support ladies, its so reassuring to know that there are others feeling what I am.

I have a feeling that I am out of the race this month though

But I am seeing the Fertility Consultant on Friday so I am hoping that he will have some answers for me.

to you all XXXX

 

[Angel baby]

All woman are different on this. Some woman to not get a BFP until 17 or 18 dpo. It depends when the embryo attaches to the uterine wall. From what I understand it is more successful if it doesn't attach to the wall till after 10 DPO. So don't give up hope just quite yet! You got this! GOOD LUCK!!! Don't get discouraged quite yet!

 

[Angel baby]

what is the outcome??

 

[kimmik2344]

So this morning and I am feel really discouraged and like giving up. I tested with 2mu using FR and got . I am 11dpo and besides a little crampy and a little boob pain, I am feeling regular. Once I saw the test, I didn't even check my temp to see if still elevated or not. I didn't due to the fact that my temp stays elevated until the day AF is to come and it drops that day. Even more so discouraged when I told my mom and bestie how I was feeling and they kept telling me that I was anal and projecting my symptoms to pregnancy and it is nothing but the prenatal vitamins and me getting older (i'm 26). My mom even went to the point of saying that I may have an infection because of the increasing creamy lotiony cm and that it is making me think I am pregnant. She doesn't want me to be yet anyway as she wants me to wait but says she will fully support me if I am. They both say that FR is the best test before missed period and if I am then it should be positive. I don't even want to tell them anything now.

With one tube and both ovaries, I already feel like I don't have much options. I feel like I am losing my mind with all these symptoms and pains that I don't know whether I am imagining things becuase I want it so bad or if I am actually having more issues that may cause me to lose my other tube which is my biggest fear because I want to have kids naturally (part of my culture so no offense). I feel like I have no purpose.

Just to add, these were my notes of symptoms

Have only my left tube and both ovaries. Got AF on 9/10 (day after bday), mydays app says that I ovulated on 9/24. AF due to arrive on 10/7.

11dpo today- twinges in right side, some bloating not much, some boob pain as they have green veins all over, frequent urination, feel like blah

10dpo - woke up with heart racing, hard to sleep that night, nausea, hightened sense of smell, crampy, took hpt with very little 2mu and swore saw faint positive using CB. linea negra looks darker, lower back pain, can't button pants, boobs still hurt, bmt still elevated.

9dpo- noticed dark marks coming on face and arms (blotchy as caramel colored skin), tiny red veins on face, tons of creamish watery discharge, soooo sleepy, lower back pain, headaches. temp back above 99

8dpo- crampy, nausea, bm twice, crampy legs especially at night, chest hurts everywhere, tiny white bumps on areola and areola spread larger, headache, first notice linea negra very faint (never saw that line before). temp dip

6-7dpo - feel extremely weak, constipated (tmi), cervix soft but firm, skin very oily, cramping especially on right side, lower back pain, round ligament pain

 

[kimmik2344]

The came so day 2 of her and then another wait to ovulate and another 2 weeks to follow. I stop hoping and just gonna let it happen. This time should be better as I won't be stressed out as much as life is settling down. Oh well.