BFN at 13DPO..anyone else going crazy like me??

[LadyinWait]

damn you're right ... I'm not sure after reading some of those reviews. I think I'm going to stick with the Dollar Store ones. I'll be honest though, I swear I'm out this month. I got another BFN with SMU today. SMH I'm just waiting for AF to come. Yesterday I felt pulling, pinching, and twinges in my lower abdomen and I've had headaches off and on. I woke up with a pretty bad headache today but I honestly think it's a normal thing. I do not feel pregnant at all and I'm just feeling like I'm out How are you feeling today? Any new symptoms?

Hey!! Don't count yourself out until AF shows up! Want to send positive vibes especially since I am feeling the same way. Just POAS (CB digital) and was BFN . My nips have been crazy itchy and I have been nauseous for days now...if these are new AF symptoms then I am definitely pissed.

Baby dust and prayers to you!

Aww thank you sweetie!! I hate the feeling of having no feelings haha if I'm even making sense! As much as I hate nausea, I would be happy to have that right about now! Your symptoms sound like very good signs!How many DPO are you?

You're quite welcome! According to all of my calendars (apps, lol), I am between 12 and 13 DPO. AF is supposed to show up tomorrow. I usually cramp and spot a day before but nothing like that at the moment.

 

[LadyinWait]

damn you're right ... I'm not sure after reading some of those reviews. I think I'm going to stick with the Dollar Store ones. I'll be honest though, I swear I'm out this month. I got another BFN with SMU today. SMH I'm just waiting for AF to come. Yesterday I felt pulling, pinching, and twinges in my lower abdomen and I've had headaches off and on. I woke up with a pretty bad headache today but I honestly think it's a normal thing. I do not feel pregnant at all and I'm just feeling like I'm out How are you feeling today? Any new symptoms?

That's how I feel

I really, really thought I was but I haven't received anything remotely close to a positive since Saturday. It's not looking good. AF is due Wednesday and I'm losing hope, I haven't tested since Saturday and I won't again until Thursday is AF is a no show.

You're not out yet but I understand how you feel. It's not over yet sweetie! Last time I got a BFN, I was in a terrible mood. DH didn't appreciate it but I had to take a moment. My friend keeps telling me to test (she just had a baby two months ago), but I am like you don't know how seeing that feels (she got a BFP right after stopping BCP).

!!!!

 

[MamaWorld]

Just had a hard time eating pizza. Very, very abnormal for me.

I have a feeling you are pregnant hun!!!
You will probably be seeing a BFP pretty soon!! About how many DPO are you? I just changed my prenatals to Vitamin Raw Code because I heard amazing things about them! I'm hoping they don't make me nauseous and then I get it confused with pregnancy symptoms

I sure hope I am! I'm really not sure how many dpo I am. I thought I O'd on Oct 24th cause that's when I had the most EWCM. If I were to go by that I'd be 19 dpo. I have another dollar tree test, thinking about testing tomorrow morning. If its a bfn I'll probably get a frer or e.p.t. and test Saturday or Sunday.
Has anyone else felt feverish but not running a fever?

 

[9mclater]

This is my post from another thread, I know how you feel


Hi all, I went on a google spree last night and found this page as i too am now at 13 dpo.
I was reading you symptoms from ovulation and I hate to be the party pooper as I know all woman are different but the symptoms alot of you get I get also, but mine are like that each and every month. I have had 9 lil angels that have gone to a better place and 1 that has made it and made me the luckiest mum in the world ( lol so bias). had an ectopic in 2001, that was the first loss and it took my left tube with it. I have been trying for baby number two for quite a long while as my son is 5 now and each month i use the maybe baby and the fertility chart and i doc my symptoms

From throwing up to bbs that are so sore and hot that i cant move, to dizzy spells to not being able to eat my fav foods.

this month ( being november ) i ovulated on the 1st
of course i tried on and around that date to conceive


1dpo - tiny twinges on my right side
2-3 dpo - starting to get sore boobs
4 dpo - boobs are getting worse
5 dpo - want to spew, very queezy, getting a head ache, boobs are really starting to get annoyed. (they are aching and when i lay on them it almost feels like their sun-burnt, my bra no longer fits and im bulging out the sides lol)
6 dpo - not sleeping well very unsettled, boobs are almost putting me in tears
7 dpo - not quite right tummy, had to go to the toilet at midnight bowels are angry, back ache
8 dpo - im going to kill my boobs! waking during the night to pee and have this stupid pain on my right side and down my right leg.
9 dpo - had a fill bladder at 11 so i got up to pee then again at 1. right cramps still there have a sore lower back ache sniffles and a blocked nose, almost passed out at the shops and spent all arvo spewing
10 dpo - pain is easing in my tummy now. COFFEE is bad made me spew and i had the up chucks all day. my boobs and nipples are going to get a piece of my mind when af hits. neg test
11 dpo - did a test this morning but cause i know where the line is meant to be i can see whats not really there lol, symptoms eased till tonight when boobs got killer again, wanna spew but i managed not to.
12 dpo - up chuck feeling started early this morning and was dizzy, i was already hungry at 9:30 so i ate toast ( i never eat till after midday) ok to boobs by tonight are back and im cramping a lil tonight
13 dpo - ok so this is today my boobs are sore still and have what looks like spider veins on them, bra is still too small lol, dizzy spells are annoying me as i have things to do and my tummy is feeling hunry and i think it makes me up chucky, coffee still isnt my friend and i am now starting to feel what feels like af on her way......




I have this each month and normally have ovulation spotting for 2 days too but not this month, i have a reg period now (last 5 months) 19th of every month lol it must go by the calendar. my ovulation day is normally 12 or 13 even though i have a longer period time, I know all woman are different so I hope that when you all get these symptoms that they really are BFP months, but I would like to know how many other do get these symptoms each month without a bfp?


baby dust to all you wonderful ladies xoxoxoxo

 

[MamaWorld]

Sorry you've had such a hard time concieving. Is it possible that you're having chemical pregnancies all these months that you're getting these symptoms? I've only had 1 period since I've had my son so I haven't really been tracking symptoms. From what I can remember I would just get really bad cramping and sore boobs right before AF shows. My boobs never got swollen to the point where my bras were too tight. When I was pregnant with my son, from what I remember, my boobs got bigger fairly quick but didn't get sore til after bfp.

 

[9mclater]

Sorry you've had such a hard time concieving. Is it possible that you're having chemical pregnancies all these months that you're getting these symptoms? I've only had 1 period since I've had my son so I haven't really been tracking symptoms. From what I can remember I would just get really bad cramping and sore boobs right before AF shows. My boobs never got swollen to the point where my bras were too tight. When I was pregnant with my son, from what I remember, my boobs got bigger fairly quick but didn't get sore til after bfp.

Im unsure if it would be a chem preg as its been every month for a long time, I lost a lot of lil ones due to the dvt mutation, I need to have asprin daily and then injections but last pregnancy i did as i was told and still lost it at just on 7 weeks, all the laost babies were confirmed and all lost after i saw the heart beat at 6 weeks , my boobs not fitting in my bra seems to be a normal thing before o im fine 2 days following o they start to get larger and look great till bang they are so big they bulge.

 

[MamaWorld]

That must be very hard to go through. I hope you get a good, healthy pregnancy soon.

 

[hopeandpray1]

Sorry you've had such a hard time concieving. Is it possible that you're having chemical pregnancies all these months that you're getting these symptoms? I've only had 1 period since I've had my son so I haven't really been tracking symptoms. From what I can remember I would just get really bad cramping and sore boobs right before AF shows. My boobs never got swollen to the point where my bras were too tight. When I was pregnant with my son, from what I remember, my boobs got bigger fairly quick but didn't get sore til after bfp.

I agree with this. I'm wondering if you're having more chemical pregnancies than you are aware. However, I will say that many of us are aware that a lot of the symptoms we're experiencing can also be confused with ovulation symptoms or even when AF is due. It's very frustrating but I will say that the difference comes when these symptoms aren't normal for us as they are for you. For example, I'm not exactly sure what your symptoms are when you are pregnant but if you do have a viable pregnancy, I would expect that you would probably experience something completely different because most times, not all, our bodies react different to the increase in hormones and in preparation for a baby. I think for you the best thing would be to pay attention to the difference in symptoms because those symptoms that you mentioned above are clearly normal for you so maybe not experiencing symptoms or different symptoms would give you a clue when you are pregnant. I hope I'm making sense lol. For example, some of the symptoms I experienced this month were completely out of the ordinary therefore it clued me in on the possibility that this could be my month. Everyone's symptoms are different so what I experience may be different for me if I'm pregnant but the same for you when you are ovulating. You just have to track your own body and not the symptoms of other people so that by paying attention to your regular symptoms, you can narrow down what is "normal" for you versus what is out of the ordinary. I am so sorry that you are having trouble conceiving. Don't give up though.

 

[9mclater]

Yeah I understand what you mean, when I am pregnant I bleed from 5 week onwards ( can only go by 1 pregnancy) but all symptoms are very much the same. I had 1 other main symptom while pregnant with all and that is after intercourse I fell what can be discribed as a ball in my tummy, that was there from about 5 weeks on too. That's why I was wondering how many others have the same symptoms each month after ovulation, just to see I am not the only one going through it, it's gutting when af arrives when I have no real way of knowing till she shows her ugly head

 

[9mclater]

Have had 1 preg that lasted he is 5

 

[hopeandpray1]

Ladyinwait, it sounds promising. AF hasn't showed so this is a good sign!!!
MamaWorld and Ladyinwait, any new symptoms? So yesterday while I was exercising the weirdest thing happened. I had to pee 3 times in a matter of 30 minutes and when I pee'd, I felt so stupid because barely anything came out. I was so angry because I felt as if my bladder was so full but then only drops would come out (sorry TMI) lol. I hope I am not getting a UTI omg that would just really make everything horrible. smh

 

[hopeandpray1]

Yeah I understand what you mean, when I am pregnant I bleed from 5 week onwards ( can only go by 1 pregnancy) but all symptoms are very much the same. I had 1 other main symptom while pregnant with all and that is after intercourse I fell what can be discribed as a ball in my tummy, that was there from about 5 weeks on too. That's why I was wondering how many others have the same symptoms each month after ovulation, just to see I am not the only one going through it, it's gutting when af arrives when I have no real way of knowing till she shows her ugly head

Oh wow. This must definitely be frustrating. Our bodies drive us crazy sometimes!!!

 

[MamaWorld]

Ladyinwait, it sounds promising. AF hasn't showed so this is a good sign!!!
MamaWorld and Ladyinwait, any new symptoms? So yesterday while I was exercising the weirdest thing happened. I had to pee 3 times in a matter of 30 minutes and when I pee'd, I felt so stupid because barely anything came out. I was so angry because I felt as if my bladder was so full but then only drops would come out (sorry TMI) lol. I hope I am not getting a UTI omg that would just really make everything horrible. smh

I remember when I was pregnant I had to get off the treadmill to pee 2 or 3 times during my 30 min cardio.
Woke up feeling hungry, nauseas, winded and a little dizzy. Very gassy too. I took another dollar tree test. Not sure if it's a very faint bfp or a really bad evap. I took a few pics, the pics look a little different cause they're in different lighting. Does anyone know how to post pics from an iPhone?

 

[LadyinWait]

Ladyinwait, it sounds promising. AF hasn't showed so this is a good sign!!!
MamaWorld and Ladyinwait, any new symptoms? So yesterday while I was exercising the weirdest thing happened. I had to pee 3 times in a matter of 30 minutes and when I pee'd, I felt so stupid because barely anything came out. I was so angry because I felt as if my bladder was so full but then only drops would come out (sorry TMI) lol. I hope I am not getting a UTI omg that would just really make everything horrible. smh

Hey! Just had some back pain that came and went. So I am still waiting. If AF doesn't show today then I'll test tomorrow.

I pray it's not a UTI, and it's probably not! I keep thinking I need to check to see what's going on down there (to see if AF started) but very minimal cramping. TMI, I checked my cervix to to make sure it wasn't starting and I didn't see anything.

 

[hopeandpray1]

Ladyinwait, it sounds promising. AF hasn't showed so this is a good sign!!!
MamaWorld and Ladyinwait, any new symptoms? So yesterday while I was exercising the weirdest thing happened. I had to pee 3 times in a matter of 30 minutes and when I pee'd, I felt so stupid because barely anything came out. I was so angry because I felt as if my bladder was so full but then only drops would come out (sorry TMI) lol. I hope I am not getting a UTI omg that would just really make everything horrible. smh

I remember when I was pregnant I had to get off the treadmill to pee 2 or 3 times during my 30 min cardio.
Woke up feeling hungry, nauseas, winded and a little dizzy. Very gassy too. I took another dollar tree test. Not sure if it's a very faint bfp or a really bad evap. I took a few pics, the pics look a little different cause they're in different lighting. Does anyone know how to post pics from an iPhone?

Yes. When you click on reply to post a new comment, at the top under the title you will see fonts, sizes, a smiley face, and a paper clip. Click on the paper clip and then it will take you to a screen where you can choose what file to upload from your computer. Click on choose file and browse your computer for the file or picture you are trying to upload. Once you find it, click on it and then click upload.

 

[hopeandpray1]

Ladyinwait, it sounds promising. AF hasn't showed so this is a good sign!!!
MamaWorld and Ladyinwait, any new symptoms? So yesterday while I was exercising the weirdest thing happened. I had to pee 3 times in a matter of 30 minutes and when I pee'd, I felt so stupid because barely anything came out. I was so angry because I felt as if my bladder was so full but then only drops would come out (sorry TMI) lol. I hope I am not getting a UTI omg that would just really make everything horrible. smh

Hey! Just had some back pain that came and went. So I am still waiting. If AF doesn't show today then I'll test tomorrow.

I pray it's not a UTI, and it's probably not! I keep thinking I need to check to see what's going on down there (to see if AF started) but very minimal cramping. TMI, I checked my cervix to to make sure it wasn't starting and I didn't see anything.

I know. The weird thing is it's not happening today. I'm gonna exercise again today and see if it happens. It was so bizarre. If I am starting to get a UTI, I'll die lol. I also didn't test today. So tired of seeing BFN's so I'm just waiting for AF to show her ugly face. I should be anywhere from 13DPO to 17DPO. Smh. I think Clomid made my period wacko

 

[MamaWorld]

It's asking for a URL and idk how to find the URL # from my phone. I'll have to hook my phone up to the computer later and try it that way. I have a good feeling about that line though! I can see it as clearly with the test laying flat on the counter. But idk if it has color to it so it's confusing. If its an evap, it's the worst one I've ever seen.

 

[motherbare123]

Hello xx

I took a test two days ago and it came back with a very faint line, but it was definitely there. I took a picture to make sure my eyes weren't playing tricks on me and it was alot more clearer, i made an appointment with my GP and she told me that the chances are that i am pregnant because i have most of the symtoms and i have not came on my period. (Im always on time). She asked for me to do a urine sample so they could sent it of to the labs, im still waiting for my results now. On my way home i bought two more tests, I took 1 when i got home which was mid afternoon and one yesterday morning, and they both came back negative. Now i really dont no if im coming or going..

xx

 

[hopeandpray1]

It's asking for a URL and idk how to find the URL # from my phone. I'll have to hook my phone up to the computer later and try it that way. I have a good feeling about that line though! I can see it as clearly with the test laying flat on the counter. But idk if it has color to it so it's confusing. If its an evap, it's the worst one I've ever seen.

really? I see the part that asks for a URL. But above that, does it say upload file from computer? If it does, click on that and then it should take you to your picture gallery. If not, you may have to wait till you get to a computer. FX'd!!!!!

 

[MamaWorld]

Hello xx

I took a test two days ago and it came back with a very faint line, but it was definitely there. I took a picture to make sure my eyes weren't playing tricks on me and it was alot more clearer, i made an appointment with my GP and she told me that the chances are that i am pregnant because i have most of the symtoms and i have not came on my period. (Im always on time). She asked for me to do a urine sample so they could sent it of to the labs, im still waiting for my results now. On my way home i bought two more tests, I took 1 when i got home which was mid afternoon and one yesterday morning, and they both came back negative. Now i really dont no if im coming or going..

xx

Were they the same brand?