Bfp At 17!!!someone Please Help Me:(!

[moomin_troll]

well it takes 2 and he should stand up and be counted just like u r.

if i was u i wouldnt give him anytime id tell him to grow up and be a man but thats just me lol emotional support is very important during this time in our lifes but even tho i live with my oh i dont get it as much as id like but thats just men for u. i think he should move to u and yeah its hard to get housing and a job in any area but he should do it for u and ur baby.

but sometimes doesnt matter about their age men just dont get it and think about them and how a baby will effect them but a baby effects the woman more we just need to make them see that.

i find a good slap works hahah

good luck i hope he steps up soon

 

[princess_x0]

Hello all, Im new to this so best i introduce myself first,
Im Ash and im 17, and found out today that im pregnant!
Its such a massive shock but know its my own fault deep down.
The thing is my boyfriend of two years, lives 200miles away in yorkshire and I know its going to be so difficult whatever happens.
I cant have an abortion, theres just no way i would be able to live with myself, and it isnt the childs fault atall.
Iv spoken to my mum about things and told her and she thinks i should have an abortion so it doesnt 'ruin' my life, Maybe shes just in shock to but surely she wouldnt expect me to do that?!:S
My boyfriend thinks it would be best if i get an abortion too, but he doesnt understand how difficult it is being in this position and he says he will support me 100% whatever I decide to do,I just feel like everything has suddenly hit me! And i just dont know what to do!
Would be so gratefull of other peoples advice/experiences/opinions
Many thanks everyone
Ash
x

Hey babes.
I just want to say, don't have termination unless you 1000% sure with it you want that. And definately do not let your mum or OH talk you into 1. Because trust me you regret it, it hits you hard and fast. My mum & bf talked me into one and now I wish I didn't do it but thats another story.
xxx

 

[Dream.A.Dream]

Just wanted to say well done on deciding to keep your baby. Too many people allow themselves to be pushed into an abortion and then regret it afterwards. Also i'm sorry your family and OH weren't that supportive. It's good to see that your family have started to come round and hopefully they will continue to in order to be able to support you. Perhaps once they start seeing scan pictures etc then it will become more real to them and they'll start offering you the support you need. As for your OH i really hope that he does come round for you and i also think that it is perfectly reasonable of you to ask him if he'd consider moving to be nearer to you. It's important for you to stay where you are right now i think so you have the support of family and friends as you're gonna need it in the coming months so i don't think you moving up to be near him would be as ideal unless his family turns out to be really supportive. Another thing i just wanted to say is are you prepared to do things without your OH should he not come around to the idea? Unfortunately it is a very real possibility today that he might not want to face up to his responsibility and while legally there are certain things he must do he may decide that he just isn't ready to be a dad and therefore not be involved as you'd like him to be.

I really hope everything works out the way you want it to, and once again congratulations on your pregnancy and your decision

 

[xXx Vamp xXx]

Hey hun. I'm glad to see your family are coming around to the decision and that you've made an appointment with connections. Hopefully they'll find you something suitable

As for him moving to be near you, if he's not sure he's committed to you both right now it may not be the best thing to suggest at the moment. but maybe you could discuss it when he's had more time to come to terms with it. Once he knows firmly that the baby is going nowhere and will deffinately be a part of his life no matter what. Hope you're okay hun xx