BFP with or without Soy Iso after a Loss!!!!!

I was sat reading the link drinking my coke and eating my jelly babies, no wonder my eggs are crap! I'm a caffeine and sugar addict! Urgh

lol... I think many of us are guilty of that! I did reduce my caffeine when ttc ..but now I'm back to drinking A LOT!! :dohh:
 
Hi Ladies,

Welcome aboard Dani. so sorry for your loss. I hope Poppy chimes in here but I think on the soy ttc group there are ladies who had similiar situations. I will look for the link and maybe that can be more helpful.

Holly where the heck have you been lol.

Poppy its hard to imagine you still look 6 months pregnant. I hope you get some answers.

So I went to the gym yesterday I really hate the elliptical but I did 30 minutes on there and 45 on the treadmill. Went home did some sets with my resistance bands for strength training and today I feel like I got ran over by a car. So whose posting weekly stats and photos with me :)
 
lol.. I've been around but lurking more than posting.. even now I have my hands full! It's hard to type one handed :haha:

I'm TOTALLY on the weight loss wagon. I've lost all of my pregnancy weight but I'm still about 10-15 pounds heavier than I want to be so I'm still truckin' :rofl: I dowloaded Myfitnesspal on my cell phone and I LOVE IT!! It really keeps me honest entering everything I'm eating and exercising. exercising is hard.. Grant is a big time cap napper so I'm having to do my workout in 2 or 3 segments. Sounds like you did a kick ass workout!! That's a lot!

Do you have a lot you want to lose Truth??

Also been busy with school stuff.. I'm starting back in May but I'm studying Algebra big time right now to try and skip one of my classes.. I only have 3 pre-req's left before I can start nursing.. if I pass this test- I'll only need to take 2.. fx'd!!!!!!!!!!!! My test is april 26th.. so I'm hoping I can study enough before then but it's hard!!

Grant has FINALLLLLLLLLLLY started sleeping through the night too... 8 hours, then 8 hours, then 9 hours. and last night 11 hours straight :happydance: Hoping it sticks!
 
Hi Holly!!!! Thats great about Grant sleeping all night..Im freaking jealous lol Im still up every 5 hours for feedings. How much is Grant eatting? Is the Colic over?

I have fitness pal on my phone also but havent tried it out yet maybe I will. But yes I have a ton of weight to lose 25lbs. Im so mad my weight never comes off after giving birth I always have to kick start my workout. The fact that I couldnt workout during my pregnancy made me gain way too much weight. So this is week one for me currently 185 all hips and belly . I am going to post a picture when I get home. Goal weight is 160.

Great news about school. I was good in everything in school except math once they started including the alphabet into the mix I was lost lol.
 
Hi Holly!!!! Thats great about Grant sleeping all night..Im freaking jealous lol Im still up every 5 hours for feedings. How much is Grant eatting? Is the Colic over?

I have fitness pal on my phone also but havent tried it out yet maybe I will. But yes I have a ton of weight to lose 25lbs. Im so mad my weight never comes off after giving birth I always have to kick start my workout. The fact that I couldnt workout during my pregnancy made me gain way too much weight. So this is week one for me currently 185 all hips and belly . I am going to post a picture when I get home. Goal weight is 160.

Great news about school. I was good in everything in school except math once they started including the alphabet into the mix I was lost lol.

the sleeping through is a new development.. hopefully your little man will start soon!!! I found using the "Miracle Blanket" to be the difference... once I started swaddling him in it.. he slept GREAT!!!

definitely give fitnesspal a try.. Its been 3 weeks since I started using it :thumbup:

I SUCK at math too... I mean .. I can do it.. but it requires work and I hate that :haha:
 
Jeremiah hates being swaddled because he likes to suck his fingers lol. We still havent moved past 4oz of formula.

I am going to test out the fitness pal app. Back to the gym today for me.
 
Dani Rose this is the ttc soy group I am almost certain there are women here that had the same situation.

https://www.babyandbump.com/ttc-groups/271211-soy-isoflavones-natures-clomid.html
 
Dani Rose this is the ttc soy group I am almost certain there are women here that had the same situation.

https://www.babyandbump.com/ttc-groups/271211-soy-isoflavones-natures-clomid.html

I'm also in this group
 
Jeremiah hates being swaddled because he likes to suck his fingers lol. We still havent moved past 4oz of formula.

I am going to test out the fitness pal app. Back to the gym today for me.

Grant is also stuck at 4oz and has been for awhile!:shrug:
 
I think I have been there at some point?? Rings a bell....

And I think I know poppy from a loss group I am in too :(
 
The Drs here won't help until a year ttc with no bfp. My last 2 losses will mean I can't have ttc help at all. I was referred to the fertility specialists ttc Finlay but they were useless. I got clomid from a friend and it worked after a year ttc. This loss was soy. I do O but think I make crap eggs or something. I'm thinking 3 cycles of soy then onto clomid again maybe but I'm scared this time to take it :(

I felt the same sweetie cos my loss was with my first attempt but i went for it on my first AF admit i was so scared when i was taking the tablets that first evening, but i took them and i was blessed with Serenity :cloud9:
 
Awww so you had soy success after soy loss? This is the hope I was needing to hear!

Well my spotting isn't AF unless it's taking an age to come on... It stopped after this am and nothing at all now... Urgh
 
Yes i took soy on CD2-6 first time but MMC at 9 weeks, worst thing ive ever experienced in my life :cry: waited 7 weeks for AF i was constantly bleeding or spotting over that 7 weeks, then i decided to chart again, use Preseed and plucked up the courage to try Soy on CD3-7 same dosage as before, i got lucky and was certainly petrified of another MMC.

Oh i drank coke and coffee as normal :haha:
 
I did 5-9 120mg and the HB stopped at 8+3, seen it 3 times :( Then had the medically managed option at 10 wks 1 day, also horrific experience. My MC last year was way nicer and I regulated quickly.

This month I am so lost :(

Did you TTC previously with no luck or just try soy off the bat? Sorry If i am asking too much just say...

I am so glad you shared a happy ending as I was properly blaming Soy for what happeend to start with. Im calmer about it now but was still scared to take it xx
 
Can understand how you feel, i was blaming Soy too for my loss but knew deep down it could happen to anyone for whatever reason. Sorry for your losses :hugs: can ask anything thats what this forums here for :0).

I tried Soy because im older and wanted a healthier egg, i fell across the Soy threads by accident then researched it cos i was tempted to buy Clomid online. Dont think i had a problem ovulating, but tried charting also first time with my first attempt at Soy never expected my BFP 1st time.
 
Yeah that's what I have tried to tell myself too. My clomid was from a friend and I conceived DS with it, she got it online. I still have the site bookmarked incase. But Soy obviously worked for me. I ovulate but I don't think my eggs are the best, pretty much what the specialist told me but wouldnt help.

Thanks for all your help so far, you have def inspired me to give it another try.

The private clinic called today so I will ring them back tomo, they are doing some blood tests to check for auto immune link and my MC's, could be blood clotting or something the Dr thinks. They were referring me for testing but the wait time is months so I opted to pay to have them sooner.... TTC huh, who said it was easy! haha
 
lol deffo not easy. At least if they find its a clotting reason they can put you on blood thinners straight away or Asprin. I use to have to inject Tinzaparin everyday once pregnant but that was to stop me getting another clot.

Hope you find the answers soon sweetie and yes try Soy again but wait till these blood results come back :hugs: we're around if you need us.
 
Yeh I've already stocked up on Aspirin, so mad I didn't take it last time, ppl told me too but I thought naaaa I'll be ok. PPl as in friends with auto immune not the dr...

I will take it as a precaution anyway now I think.

Thanks hun means a lot to talk to someone who has been through it and come out the other side. You kinda feel no hope during something like this.

Dani x
 
Yeh I've already stocked up on Aspirin, so mad I didn't take it last time, ppl told me too but I thought naaaa I'll be ok. PPl as in friends with auto immune not the dr...

I will take it as a precaution anyway now I think.

Thanks hun means a lot to talk to someone who has been through it and come out the other side. You kinda feel no hope during something like this.

Dani x

I will say.. just on the aspirin.. I almost lost this baby bc of baby aspirin.. I took it bc I read so many great things about it after a mc and it certainly helps MANY MANY MANY women.. so I'm not saying not to take it.. but be super careful once you actually have a bfp too. My fertility doctor was PISSED when he found out I was taking it. At my first sonogram~ I had a pool of blood in my uterus @ 5w6d and a small area of placenta separation- baby aspirin prevents clotting.. so basically had I not stopped- I would have very likely lost my baby. I am *VERY* lucky my doctor had me stop in time. Just make sure your doctor knows. people think aspirin is always a good thing and that definitely isn't true.. and I would HATE for anyone else to have to go through what I went through-- and that was right after my mc. I dealt with the placenta issues my whole pregnancy and had to be monitored more and had bleeding off and on.. It's GREAT to help get pregnant and I totally am an advocate of it up until ovulation is done.. then~ I suggest only doing it under dr.s orders.

Baby aspirin can be harmful too- again, not for a lot of women.. but it's just something to be aware of. :hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:
 
Holly I had read that other places too. Well I get my blood tests tomo as the clinic just called so FX I would have results by the time I get a BFP :)

Thanks for warning me though, I appreciate it! My dr also said to wait but it's so scarey to imagine another loss... I wouldn't want that though either.

AF for sure!! heavy and sore!!

Is this CD1 as full flow or yday or day before with spotting?? So confused! But need to know for Soy ?
 

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