Sorry, I'm probably over reacting a bit but i'm just annoyed I was talking to this guy I haven't spoken to for ages and he was asking the usual, how far along I am, names etc. Then he started saying how he was gonna come see me to celebrate my 18th by going out drinking etc. Fair enough, but i'm pretty sure i'm not going to want to when LO is due 3 weeks before my birthday. And he started kinda having a go at me because I won't want to go out when I will be looking after a new born. And he just keeps saying how i can get someone to look after her and that it's essential for me to go out. No it's not. And I won't want to go out, I will be tired, I will be (hopefully) breastfeeding her and I'd miss her too much. Btw, I'm not in any way complaining about LO, I honestly don't care that I won't be going out drinking on my 18th, a take away with OH would be more than enough. He's just annoying me by saying that I'm now boring cos I don't want to go out every weekend. Uh, no, i'm just growing up ready to be a mum.