Morning girlies.
I thought I would use the forum for a bit of a vent because I don't really want to talk to OH about this since it involves family (his) :S
Our baby is due end of May (24th is DD but this is our first so I'm expecting any time between then and 7th June). My OH family live a reasonable distance away so when the baby arrives I wasn't expecting them to rush here to see her immediately, especially with work commitments etc. But I thought, well maybe they'll come the first weekend after birth. It seems that actually in that 2 week window for birth, both my OH parents and one of his siblings are going to be out of the country for work/holiday for a week (guys are "working", girls tagging along for holiday). I feel a little bit upset really, for the baby but more for my OH that there hasn't really been any effort to keep some time free to come and visit.
I know that people can't and shouldn't arrange their lives around us, but this is the first grandchild/niece/next generation family member and it seems like there isn't really as much excitment there as I hoped. The contrast is especially striking when you compare with my parents, for whom this is not the first grandchild, but they are super-excited!
It makes me a bit sad really, and then unfortunately, given my personality, quite pissed off and contrary. Like, well if you can't make an effort to come and see her then why should I go out of my way to be accessible when you are available!
Vent over :S
I thought I would use the forum for a bit of a vent because I don't really want to talk to OH about this since it involves family (his) :S
Our baby is due end of May (24th is DD but this is our first so I'm expecting any time between then and 7th June). My OH family live a reasonable distance away so when the baby arrives I wasn't expecting them to rush here to see her immediately, especially with work commitments etc. But I thought, well maybe they'll come the first weekend after birth. It seems that actually in that 2 week window for birth, both my OH parents and one of his siblings are going to be out of the country for work/holiday for a week (guys are "working", girls tagging along for holiday). I feel a little bit upset really, for the baby but more for my OH that there hasn't really been any effort to keep some time free to come and visit.
I know that people can't and shouldn't arrange their lives around us, but this is the first grandchild/niece/next generation family member and it seems like there isn't really as much excitment there as I hoped. The contrast is especially striking when you compare with my parents, for whom this is not the first grandchild, but they are super-excited!
It makes me a bit sad really, and then unfortunately, given my personality, quite pissed off and contrary. Like, well if you can't make an effort to come and see her then why should I go out of my way to be accessible when you are available!
Vent over :S