Bleeding when I wipe myself?? UPDATED!!

[libbylou]

I hope all is well with you LO!

I've read that 1 in 4 pregnancies experience first trimester spotting/bleeding...but honestly it sounds like that number is a lot higher!
I did have brown spotting from week 6-7.
A friend of mine had a massive gush of blood in her first trimester...they thought they lost her LO as they couldn't find him on the u/s. Did another u/s a week later and there he was, growing away! (he's almost 5 years now!)
Its not always bad news

 

[mummy2be123]

I am going thru the same thing. Started bleeding on Friday. Went for an U/S but am only 4wks so they saw nothing. They did blood work and luckily my numbers are doubling. I wish I was just spotting, but unfortunately am having a light period... cramps and all. This is so nerve racking. I wish nothing but the best for you. Hope this all turns out ok for the both of us.

I hope you get some answers soon its horrible isnt it

So I am still bleeding and last night when I went bed I put a bad on and there was a patch of blood on it this morning so i took it off. I have had no blood on my underwear all day just blood when I wipe myself and its bright red like a period (sorry for all the TMI!)

This afternoon I had to lye on my bed I was crying in agony with my stomach its since eased but I am still bleeding. I'm more worried because last week when I slept I woke up the day after and I had blood all over my bed but I was not worried because I didnt have any pains

I am sooo freaking out .. I just need to know either way now.

I've had my ex boyfriend texting me hes threatening to take me court over our son (great timing) when he knows I am bleeding and he doesnt even care. My mum has managed to get tomorrow off as well so shes losing out on 12 hours pay but I havent got go the scan on my own

I will update tomorrow as soon as I know either way. I just hope its good news!

xxx

 

[Flowerbaby]

Awww im sorry your having such a rough time and i hope all goes well for you at your scan tomorrow. Sending you lots of hugs xxx

 

[LilianA]

Im sorry your going thru that hun. I am too. I had spotting for two days over the weekend and its back today I am waiting for my scan this friday. I hope everything turns out great for you. NO pain is a very good sign and it doesn't sound like alot of blood and I've read a lot of good endings to similar situations so don't worry too much

 

[mummy2be123]

Thank you for your lovely replies and all your support! xxx

I hope friday hurries up for you Lilian i really do waiting 48 hours has been bad enough (well I will of waited 48 hours lol). I am soo nervous I had pains earlier i was crying and its hard because ive got a 9 month old son but my mum has been fantastic. I hope your spotting stops soon and both of our scans go ok xxx

 

[cl2010]

Good luck 2mo hun x

 

[Reno]

I had brown spotting last week and got an appointment for a scan this thurs. Had red bleeding on sunday and went straight to hospital and after a few hours eventually saw the gynaecologist. Had a scan and saw the tiny flicker of a heartbeat. Had an internal examination and it turns out I have erosion on my cervix, just caused by hormones! Should clear up on its own! I was told not to worry unless I fill a pad in an hour!

Its very scary, but dont worry unless you are in a lot of pain!

 

[mailcmm]

I hope you get some answers soon its horrible isnt it

So I am still bleeding and last night when I went bed I put a bad on and there was a patch of blood on it this morning so i took it off. I have had no blood on my underwear all day just blood when I wipe myself and its bright red like a period (sorry for all the TMI!)

This afternoon I had to lye on my bed I was crying in agony with my stomach its since eased but I am still bleeding. I'm more worried because last week when I slept I woke up the day after and I had blood all over my bed but I was not worried because I didnt have any pains

I am sooo freaking out .. I just need to know either way now.

I've had my ex boyfriend texting me hes threatening to take me court over our son (great timing) when he knows I am bleeding and he doesnt even care. My mum has managed to get tomorrow off as well so shes losing out on 12 hours pay but I havent got go the scan on my own

I will update tomorrow as soon as I know either way. I just hope its good news!

xxx

I hope it goes ok. My numbers are doubling but low. I am still not soaking thru a pad but have bright red blood and cramps. Still only 5 wks though so will be awhile til I get a scan. I am terrified. My mom doesn't work so at least I can be in bed. I have 2 kids 9 and 8 and a ******* ex as well. I feel your pain. I have high hopes for us.

 

[mummy2be123]

Soo just an update ...

My bleeding is getting a lot worse a lot brighter and more ... I have just lost loads of blood clots and I am in pain again.

I already i know im having or I have had a miscarriage I am so gutted just got wait for it to be confirmed tomorrow. xx

 

[Flowerbaby]

I am so so sorry hun....thinking of you xxx

 

[mailcmm]

Oh hun don't give up yet. I was positive I had one this morning. But went to the dr and my numbers went up. Hang in there and wait for the dr. Hope all is well. I'll pray for you.

 

[mummy2be123]

Thanks I am sooo fed up argh !!! EPU messed me about today about getting in a day earlier they said they could get me in if my doctor referred me so he rang .. still didnt get me in so ive got do the waiting game now.

Gut feeling is a miscarriage and my ex/babies dad doesnt even care I am in pain /upset as well as looking after our son !!!! Roll on tomorrow, xx

 

[mummy2be123]

Oh hun don't give up yet. I was positive I had one this morning. But went to the dr and my numbers went up. Hang in there and wait for the dr. Hope all is well. I'll pray for you.

Thank you but I think deep down I know I am having or i have had a miscarriage which I am absolutely gutted about I wanted this baby even though the baby was not planned it doesnt matter.

My ex boyfriend/babies dad wanted me have an abortion which I dont believe in them and I would never have one but at least I know I give my baby every chance I just dont think it was meant to be.

Counting the hours down for it to be confirmed tomorrow now! 12 hours and counting i wish it would hurry up

xxx

 

[Flowerbaby]

 

[mailcmm]

Oh hun don't give up yet. I was positive I had one this morning. But went to the dr and my numbers went up. Hang in there and wait for the dr. Hope all is well. I'll pray for you.

Thank you but I think deep down I know I am having or i have had a miscarriage which I am absolutely gutted about I wanted this baby even though the baby was not planned it doesnt matter.

My ex boyfriend/babies dad wanted me have an abortion which I dont believe in them and I would never have one but at least I know I give my baby every chance I just dont think it was meant to be.

Counting the hours down for it to be confirmed tomorrow now! 12 hours and counting i wish it would hurry up

xxx

Well I wish you nothing but the best either way. Keep me posted. Dad sounds like an a** pardon my stars!

 

[mummy2be123]

Soooo I had my scan today!!!!! BAD NEWS

The fetus is measuring 6 weeks with no HB my bleeding is worse like a period bleed and ive got go for a re scan next friday but they said basically looks liked a failed pregnancy xx

BUT .. I think my dates are wrong I need your opinions please!!

My last period was 6th july .. which means I would of been due 6th august now 6th august came and went no period! So I tested everyday and i got a and on my birthday august 20th i got a

Now I dont know the date i conceived but it took a long time to get a positive 1 month 2 weeks ... I know it can and does happen but I am wondering say I may of conceived on 3rd august and my period was due 6th august (for example)

My dates are/were 7 weeks 4 days today and I did that from my clearblue digital I know they arent accurate but just as a rough guide i stuck to that and the baby is measuring 6 weeks with no heartbeat I have to go back for a re scan next friday .. they said it does not look good and i will most probably pass the baby naturally.

Now I know im clutching at straws but could i of concieved late and infact the dates from today are correct?!

thanks xx

 

[kat2504]

I'm so sorry for your loss. It doesn't help that you knew it was coming anyway, its still a huge disappointment and shock when you get that bad news.
Hopefully it will pass naturally for you between now and next Friday and you recover quickly without needing hospital treatment.
Best of luck for the future and hope you have some good support at the moment.

 

[mailcmm]

Soooo I had my scan today!!!!! BAD NEWS

The fetus is measuring 6 weeks with no HB my bleeding is worse like a period bleed and ive got go for a re scan next friday but they said basically looks liked a failed pregnancy xx

BUT .. I think my dates are wrong I need your opinions please!!

My last period was 6th july .. which means I would of been due 6th august now 6th august came and went no period! So I tested everyday and i got a and on my birthday august 20th i got a

Now I dont know the date i conceived but it took a long time to get a positive 1 month 2 weeks ... I know it can and does happen but I am wondering say I may of conceived on 3rd august and my period was due 6th august (for example)

My dates are/were 7 weeks 4 days today and I did that from my clearblue digital I know they arent accurate but just as a rough guide i stuck to that and the baby is measuring 6 weeks with no heartbeat I have to go back for a re scan next friday .. they said it does not look good and i will most probably pass the baby naturally.

Now I know im clutching at straws but could i of concieved late and infact the dates from today are correct?!

thanks xx

Stranger things have happened. Maybe you were wrong. I hope that your next scan is good. Will keep my fingers and toes crossed for you. I go to the dr in 2 hours and am a total nervous nelly. I can't get a scan yet. on 5 weeks.

 

[Coleey]

Sending loads of hugs! I really hope everything is okay xx

 

[mummy2be123]

Thanks for both of your replies. I'm still hoping my dates are wrong and maybe i concieved late days before my period was due in august which is why i didnt come on my period and i got a late positive ... and my dates today are correct (6 weeks) and I could eventually see a HB next week.

I hope everything goes ok for you at the doctors mail and I hope you get some answers soon, good luck, and thanks for your support, i hope everything goes ok xxx