boyfriend kicks me out a week before due date

[velirya]

because 'he cant do this' and 'wants his life back'

then also goes on about how he doesnt know if the baby is his or not.
hes changed his phone numbers and everything.

im so angry. currently living in a b&b...
my mums having to come up from london to be my birth partner.

i really shouldnt put him on the birth certificate should i?
we were going to call her sophia... but it doesnt feel right anymore :s

so angry.

 

[anneliese]

I don't know how it works in the UK, but if need to put his name on it if for no other reason than to get child support from him then I'd do it. If that doesn't make a difference then I'd say screw him. He doesn't deserve to has his name on it and he sounds like a completely piece of crap. Who kicks a pregnant woman out on the street??

 

[xxmyheartxx]

Aw huni, dont no what to say but didnt want to r and r, sending lots of hugs xx

 

[velirya]

hes been saying he wants the baby up for adoption aswell. i have a horrible feeling his mother has something to do with this

 

[Suffysmom]

That's sad. He doesn't deserve the joy of this precious little one! If you can get away with it I would not put his name on the birth certificate or even give her his last name. That is, of course, unless like another poster said you need to in order to get child support, if that is what you want and need. Good luck! I pray that things work out for you.

 

[jd11]

if u need his name on it to get child support i would put it on it. he needs to grow the F up n realise that he cant throw away his responsibilty at last minute and expect to carry on like nothing happened. i personally would make him pay up but i would do that just to be a bitch to him. i am so sorry he has done this to you

 

[ttc_lolly]

You don't need his name on the birth certificate to claim child support allowance so don't worry about that. I'm sorry he's done this to you what a selfish, immature man. What about your other children, how are they handling this? Does he not even care about them?

 

[velirya]

he honestly couldnt give a crap about anyone but himself.
i mean hes changed both his numbers!

i dont think i will put his name on the birth certificate, he doesnt deserve parental rights even. hes an absolute waste of space. who says police officers are responsible people, eh? >:O

 

[aliss]

Wait he kicked you AND your 2 kids out??!?! How can he kick you out of your home, that asshole should be leaving. Unbelievable.

And I worked in policing 10 years, some of them are really the most immature little twits ever. I'm so sorry you are going through this

 

[tigerlilly]

I'm sorry ur going through this . If it was me I would still put his name on the birth cert because i don't see why he should be able to sherk his responablities, after all it take two to make a baby and no matter what he's a father wheather he likes it or not!

It's so hard when 'family' interfer and double hard when it's a mother and son. Sounds like the mother could be a piece of work? I hope that he'll see sense and wake the f-up! I wish you lots of luck honey, sending you love and strength xx

 

[whatwillbe]

what a ****** , sorry your going through this Hun, your so much better off without some one as selfish as him, can't believe your having to live in a b n b , keep strong

 

[velirya]

'immature little twit'
thats EXACTLY him.

i dont know whether hes freaking out about a baby or what...

 

[bitethebullet]

Sorry to hear this- hope the birth goes well. X

 

[KeriEloise]

You cant put his name on he birth certificate withour him being there anyway ?
Im sorry you are going thought this hun Personally I would toss that twat away like an empty can of coke for someone to treat you like that when you are carrying his child and a week to go before you are due is disgusting... I say you are better off without.
Xx

 

[whatwillbe]

Sorry to sound nosey, but is he the father of your other 2 children , if so and he's been there with your other 2 lo's , I can't understand how he could just do this, if he's a new partner and it's his 1st baby I could understand him being a bit scared but still no excuse for treating you like this x

 

[mum2b2009]

Is it his or both your house he has kicked you out of?

 

[smallpeanut]

Not all police officers are like that Mine's lovely.

But I am sorry your going through this and he sounds like a P****

xxx

 

[kimbobaloo]

what a arse like another poster said you need him there to put him on the birth certificate, have you contacted anyone like gingerbread housing??? (i think its gingerbread someone please correct me if im wrong) they will try their best to help you put a roof over yours and your two other LO'S heads
i hope everything goes ok for you

 

[PepsiChic]

Dont bother putting him on the birth certificate for now.

a. he doesnt need to be on it if you claim child support from him

b. he has to be there to sign it anyway.

c. he doesnt deserve the responsibility of being a parent

d. if you name him as the father on the birth certificate he can claim parental rights further down the road and if hes this much of a jackass...you probably want to wait till he proves himself before you even consider allowing him to care for the baby.


you can always add him to the birth certificate at a later date.

 

[ttc_lolly]

KeriEloise is right... in the UK you can't put his name on the birth certificate without him present anyway. He needs to be there at the registry office and sign the documents, so his loss anyway