boyfriend kicks me out a week before due date

[Sambatiki]

I dont understand why or how he has got a solicitor involved... what for? Its not like youre taking him to court or anything.

The house that you were living in was it his? Rented or owned?

 

[Sarahcake]

Hugs hun, will give you a text in a minute and catch up. Was in hospital yesterday then came home ate and slept so didn't get a chance to reply to you x

 

[Lauren25]

this is shocking, hope your okay!! Just concentrate on your children now he's really not worth the bother by the sounds of things!!

 

[sethsmummy]

omg what on earth has he got a solicitor involved for?

As said by someone else hun start documenting every time you have contact with him and always try and have someone else with you at the time to bare witness. BUT if he is going to play this game then just dont contact him! Is he trying to fight to get custody/access of your child? If so then you need to get yourself sorted with a solicitor too, if you cant afford it find one who accepts financial aid. And once you'v done that only make contact with him through the solicitor then its all on record from an official and that way nothing can be twisted.

Sorry someone else got the temp accomodation... i dont see how they could put someone higher than you on the priority list though! That's shocking.

Also have you still got any texts etc from him? If so keep them and do not delete them.. if he tried to take this further then you may be able to use them as evidence. But if he does try take it further i cant see him getting very far as soon as court officials here about him turfing you and your kids out so close to your due date. But then again, it doesnt always work how you think, talking from experience.

Sending you and your children lots of love and hugs xx

 

[holidaysan]

I'm so sorry hun, he really is a poor excuse for a man. You won't be able to get a budgeting loan but you can get a community care grant. It doesn't need to be paid back and takes around 3 weeks from applying to it going into your bank. I got £1098 xx

 

[holidaysan]

Oh and I definately wouldnt put him on the birth certificate. Doing that would give him the same rights as you and I don't really think he's mature enough to be given that!

 

[Alexsmomplus1]

Every one is right Hun, you are so much better off without him and hopefully you'll have a nice place of your own soon for you and your kids, my fob told me over and over he wanted me to have his baby, then once it didn't suit him anymore blanked me completely, when I confronted him he said he told me those things because he was ill , he has bipolar, but that is no excuse IMO , these sad men are looking for reasons to justify their disgusting behaviour, they can't even be called MEN, keep your chin up Hun, things will get better and you'll soon have another beautiful baby

I would have told him I had tourettes syndrome and uncontrollable muscle spasms in my fists.

 

[whatwillbe]

Every one is right Hun, you are so much better off without him and hopefully you'll have a nice place of your own soon for you and your kids, my fob told me over and over he wanted me to have his baby, then once it didn't suit him anymore blanked me completely, when I confronted him he said he told me those things because he was ill , he has bipolar, but that is no excuse IMO , these sad men are looking for reasons to justify their disgusting behaviour, they can't even be called MEN, keep your chin up Hun, things will get better and you'll soon have another beautiful baby

I would have told him I had tourettes syndrome and uncontrollable muscle spasms in my fists.

Haha, he did get a couple of slaps ! .. Don't do what I'd do anyone x

 

[Porcelain]

I'm so sorry
I agree with everyone else. What a scumbag, piece of trash. I could maybe understand this kind of behavior from a teenager or someone in their early 20s, but a 'man' in their 30s? You've got to be kidding me! This isn't a terrified, ignorant youngster: this is a grown-ass man! And to get a solicitor involved? WTF? Agreeing, again, with the others: save all communication.
When my mom gave my sperm donor the boot I struggled to understand because I didn't know him and she delayed to let me get to know him until I could handle the wrath of his absolute failure and disappointment (honestly, I still struggle to understand how somebody could behave the way he does). Now, I'm grateful she didn't put up with his bs (or subject me to it). I bet your child will feel the same way.
I would evict him from your life. Maybe you'll struggle getting child support from him, maybe you won't, but your children deserve more than that kind of person.