boyfriend kicks me out a week before due date

[velirya]

Sorry to sound nosey, but is he the father of your other 2 children , if so and he's been there with your other 2 lo's , I can't understand how he could just do this, if he's a new partner and it's his 1st baby I could understand him being a bit scared but still no excuse for treating you like this x

thats exactly it. it will be his first baby so thats why im wondering if this is just an extreme OTT reaction.

 

[Ktm2012]

Dont have much advise chick but sorry to read you are going through this, by the sounds of it you are better off without him anyway...what kind of man or any person for that matter throws a 9 month pregnant woman out on the streets x

 

[PepsiChic]

Sorry to sound nosey, but is he the father of your other 2 children , if so and he's been there with your other 2 lo's , I can't understand how he could just do this, if he's a new partner and it's his 1st baby I could understand him being a bit scared but still no excuse for treating you like this x

thats exactly it. it will be his first baby so thats why im wondering if this is just an extreme OTT reaction.

Its no excuse! My son (toddler) was our first born baby and my husband didnt leave me.

 

[miss cakes]

there is no excuse hes an absolute dick for doing this to you if it were me id never forgive him for just throwing you out like that what a selfish ass! obviously its all just becoming a bit to real for him now the times getting close ive been left before when pregnant but not so close to due date as you are it must be awful but better you find out now than after the baby comes what a dick he really is x

 

[dee11]

im sorry your going through all of this he sounds a right arse xx

 

[kimbobaloo]

Sorry to sound nosey, but is he the father of your other 2 children , if so and he's been there with your other 2 lo's , I can't understand how he could just do this, if he's a new partner and it's his 1st baby I could understand him being a bit scared but still no excuse for treating you like this x

thats exactly it. it will be his first baby so thats why im wondering if this is just an extreme OTT reaction.

hes still a arse!, my OH isnt my sons dad, and we moved into his house (mortgage in his name) a couple of weeks ago, he said if we split up he moves out as he wont leave me homeless with kids..

 

[whatwillbe]

Deffinatly no excuse, my fob left me and we planned the pregnancy, I know how you feel, what other posters have said contact gingerbread , or the local council , they can hopefully help you with a place to live, I won't be putting fob name on the certificate as every one has said he has to be there to sighn and he won't be, but you should still be able to get maintenance x

 

[velirya]

the council have been really good to me.
im hopefully moving into temporary accommodation on monday (3 bed house!). if not monday, they said im super top prio so ill definitely get a house.
and after that ill have a proper flat or house of my own.

i dont even feel heartbroken or anything... its really odd tbh

 

[jenniferttc1]

His true colors have shown haven't they? Men that run away, and even worse kick out his partner 1 week before due date is a like excuse of a man. No way could I forgive him for that. It would be one thing if he broke it off months ago where you had time to at least find a place for you and baby and settle her room for her arrival. He didn't even give you time for that. What an ass

 

[AnxiousAnnie]

What a jerk!!! I think that unless u are married the father needs to be with u there to register his name on the birth very. Wasnt there a big media fanfare about ed milibands name not being on his kids birth cert cuz he didn't go with his partner?

 

[miss cakes]

i think the fact that your not a broken mess over it all shows that maybe the relationship was never worth saving and your better off going your own way good luck on the house sounds like a nice fresh start for you and your kids x

 

[Skye1]

the council have been really good to me.
im hopefully moving into temporary accommodation on monday (3 bed house!). if not monday, they said im super top prio so ill definitely get a house.
and after that ill have a proper flat or house of my own.

i dont even feel heartbroken or anything... its really odd tbh

God you're stronger and braver than I would be.

what a complete wanker/coward for doing this at the last minute.

How old is he ???

I really hope you get a house sorted and settled quickly before the baby arrives.

Did you get to take all the baby stuff with you ?

 

[velirya]

the council have been really good to me.
im hopefully moving into temporary accommodation on monday (3 bed house!). if not monday, they said im super top prio so ill definitely get a house.
and after that ill have a proper flat or house of my own.

i dont even feel heartbroken or anything... its really odd tbh

God you're stronger and braver than I would be.

what a complete wanker/coward for doing this at the last minute.

How old is he ???

I really hope you get a house sorted and settled quickly before the baby arrives.

Did you get to take all the baby stuff with you ?

hes 30 and im 22.
ill be getting the rest of my stuff and kids stuff on monday hopefully!

i do miss him, and hes seemed to have unblocked my number from his phones, but hes just not answering now.

 

[Skye1]

He's a complete disgrace !!

 

[Sambatiki]

What absolutely shocking behaviour especially from someone who is supposed to have morals!!! He could have moved out for a while, whilst you found somewhere else to live.

What a complete shit bag!

I do feel sorry for the other kids though, because although he's not their dad Im sure they had a relationship with him.

I really wish you all the best moving forward and I hope it all works out for you xxx Have you got a good support network around?

 

[velirya]

What absolutely shocking behaviour especially from someone who is supposed to have morals!!! He could have moved out for a while, whilst you found somewhere else to live.

What a complete shit bag!

I do feel sorry for the other kids though, because although he's not their dad Im sure they had a relationship with him.

I really wish you all the best moving forward and I hope it all works out for you xxx Have you got a good support network around?

i only have my mum and she lives in london. so i havent got anyone really :'(

i think its all starting to get to me..

 

[Sambatiki]

Oh hun Im so sorry

Can you go and stay with your mum for a while?

 

[velirya]

Oh hun Im so sorry

Can you go and stay with your mum for a while?

i cant plus i dont really want to travel that far with a week left :/

 

[Sambatiki]

Gosh I didnt see how close you were have you got someone to look after the children when you go in?

 

[chasemanzmum]

Oh goodness, sorry for the mess your going through. Weither my kids were my DH's or not he'd never give up on the kids. He and I both believe that children should not pay for the sins of the parents. Maybe someday you will find someone who is not such a wanker. And will love and treat you and your kids with respect. Your better off without him. Since there has been little tearshed from you on your part. Tells me you are stronger than you know. Too bad a 30 year old had to pull the actions of an immature 18 year old kid (not meaning to tar everyone with the same brush). Goes to show there are guys of all ages that act worse than kids / or never had to grow up.