Hey. I am brand new at this. Anyways, I have been ttc for about 2 months or so. Im not good at charting or any of that yet. I am currently 4 days late and no af symptoms. However I took 3 tests...two of which were neg and one was defective (grr don't you hate when that happens!). Anyway I am still hoping that I am preg but I don't know what my odds are. I have had strange lower back pains and some cramps but nothing like I usually get with af. So confused and disappointed.