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Is it only me that think breastfeeding sounds completely terrible and a horrible experience? I hear lots of people talk about how incredible it is and I just think how?! Obviously the bond and the closeness I understand but when I hear of cracked and bleeding nipples, mastitis, cluster feeding, feeding in public, the only person available to feed, leaking everywhere, engorgement and just pure exhaustion it actually depresses me and makes me miserable and she isn't even here yet.
With my first DD, she wouldn't latch at all, I had midwives try for hours on end and then breastfeeding experts and nothing would work. I exclusively pumped for 2 weeks before becoming flat out exhausted (and baby losing weight down to 5lbs) that I supplemented with formula and then eventually after 5 weeks formula fed. So I never experienced the 'horrors' of breastfeeding.
This time I decided to FF from the start but after hearing of many women say how special breastfeeding is, I'm sort of feeling terrible about my pre-empt decision and wondering whether to give it a go. Then I think of all the terrible things above and feel like I couldn't possibly put myself through all of that. I know breast is best and I applaud all women who do it for such a long time because to me, it seems like hell
Does anyone else feel the same?
ETA- this is no way a post bashing breastfeeding mothers, I actually applaud you. I don't know how ou do it, it's amazing!
With my first DD, she wouldn't latch at all, I had midwives try for hours on end and then breastfeeding experts and nothing would work. I exclusively pumped for 2 weeks before becoming flat out exhausted (and baby losing weight down to 5lbs) that I supplemented with formula and then eventually after 5 weeks formula fed. So I never experienced the 'horrors' of breastfeeding.
This time I decided to FF from the start but after hearing of many women say how special breastfeeding is, I'm sort of feeling terrible about my pre-empt decision and wondering whether to give it a go. Then I think of all the terrible things above and feel like I couldn't possibly put myself through all of that. I know breast is best and I applaud all women who do it for such a long time because to me, it seems like hell
Does anyone else feel the same?
ETA- this is no way a post bashing breastfeeding mothers, I actually applaud you. I don't know how ou do it, it's amazing!